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Local hoodlums obliterate sacred Belconnen heritage site, leaving a bystander unconscious
2023.06.05 09:16 CinziaPenislardo Local hoodlums obliterate sacred Belconnen heritage site, leaving a bystander unconscious
Was casually sitting on my balcony, puffing on a lime flavoured choof, staring down below, as I spotted a group of foolish young men pushing a trolley that seemed to carry groceries, only to realize it had two passengers instead. They marched toward a blocked entrance of a sacred Aboriginal burial site, that I have treasured for years, and the barged the trolley through the sign, breaking it and unblocking the path.
As I was perched from my balcony, cigarette dangling from my mouth, yelling at these muppets to stop and put the sign back up, one of them responded with such disdain that it almost made me flop off my balcony to my demise.
The culprit in question wearing a Toronto Raptors Hoodie, obviously stolen Grey Nike Tech pants and brown coloured Air Maxes hurled various slurs at me which in return, caused me to become agitated. I flicked my choof down to the culprit, attempting to hit him, but instead he caught it, took a fat puff in a very peculiar stance which resembled a turtle burrowing into its shell, and then ran away with it.
The rest of the group continued to rummage through the sacred heritage site until one of them found a loose brick wall along the blocked path. He stood on it and started kicking it outward, making it crumble even more. I kept yelling at them, until they finally stopped, destroyed another sign, and ran away. The rest of the group followed suite.
It was at this moment, a disabled elderly onlooker tried to stop them, which led to one of the culprits, who seemingly had down syndrome of some sorts, picking up a brick and hurling it directly into the elderly woman as if he was bowling in cricket. The brick collided with her, temporarily turning the woman’s face into an abstract art installation.
The elderly woman is okay, but she was bleeding from her nose and head. If anybody has any information regarding this, please contact me or local authorities.
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As I was perched from my balcony, cigarette dangling from my mouth, yelling at these muppets to stop and put the sign back up, one of them responded with such disdain that it almost made me flop off my balcony to my demise.
The culprit in question wearing a Toronto Raptors Hoodie, obviously stolen Grey Nike Tech pants and brown coloured Air Maxes hurled various slurs at me which in return, caused me to become agitated. I flicked my choof down to the culprit, attempting to hit him, but instead he caught it, took a fat puff in a very peculiar stance which resembled a turtle burrowing into its shell, and then ran away with it.
The rest of the group continued to rummage through the sacred heritage site until one of them found a loose brick wall along the blocked path. He stood on it and started kicking it outward, making it crumble even more. I kept yelling at them, until they finally stopped, destroyed another sign, and ran away. The rest of the group followed suite.
It was at this moment, a disabled elderly onlooker tried to stop them, which led to one of the culprits, who seemingly had down syndrome of some sorts, picking up a brick and hurling it directly into the elderly woman as if he was bowling in cricket. The brick collided with her, temporarily turning the woman’s face into an abstract art installation.
The elderly woman is okay, but she was bleeding from her nose and head. If anybody has any information regarding this, please contact me or local authorities.
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2023.06.05 09:16 dalebeans Thank you, Dark Souls.
Starting college last fall was not an easy change for me. I thought that moving away from home would be just like going to hotel for a while but it wasn't. Never felt quite where I was supposed to be. During the first few weeks I tried to socialize with my roommates and some other people I thought I was sharing a bond with. It went well but whenever we agreed to hang out they never came through on their end. Every conversation never led to me getting new friends no matter how many times I tried. All I wanted was that supportive and cool friend group to hang out with every now and then like everyone else, but I never got it. I gave up trying to make any kind of long or short term friendship because I knew it would lead nowhere. Naturally, I fell into a depression.
My grades started to slip and I felt even more stressed and pressure to get a good grade at the end of the semester. This weight had I had on myself was too much, and actively lashed out in my room from the work I had to catch up on. It got so bad that my anger just turned into sadness and crying laying on the floor. This happened frequently until the semester ended. Even though the work load was over for a small time, I still felt bad since I didn't really get the grades I wanted. Alas, winter break began in December.
This is when I discovered Elden Ring. I was walking the path of grace, yet I couldn't see it... I played it for the gameplay and hype alone which was really fun. So fun that I got burned out and switched games once I cleared everything up until the Altus Plateau. I forgot about it, effectively shutting out my window to true freedom for a while.
The day is Christmas, 2022. I get some cash and spend it on Dark Souls Remastered. I am immediately hit with that "yucky old graphics" feeling the second I see my character. I do as any sane souls player would do and choose Ryan Reynolds and the Master Key. I picked Knight for my first class as I thought that made the most sense. I got in and went through the tutorial prison blah blah blah. Rested at Firelink Shrine and tried to go to New Londo Ruins and wondered why this game was so god damn hard. I said whatever, guess that's not where I'm supposed to be yet. I go to the graveyard by the catacombs and at this point I about quit the game.
Eventually I learned where to go and found the combat to be much better (who would have guessed?). I started progressing more until I hit the Bell Gargoyles. Struggled super hard even with Solaire as a summon. I ran out of humanity after a number of attempts so I put the game down altogether. Keep in mind, I was in not the best emotional/mental state this whole time so I was very prone to giving up. I guess this was it for Dark Souls. For now.
Second semester rolls around and I feel like I can do it right this time. I learned a decent amount of new study skills and made some mistakes that I learned from, so I should have this in the bag. Classes go well the first few weeks, and then I stop. I just quit doing my work. I thought to myself, "I'll just do it tomorrow" or "After this one game". I never did. I lived on campus pretending like I was still a college student. This whole time I felt down on myself and guilty for doing this to myself. My parents would be super disappointed if I told them the truth, so I lied to them. Lying made me feel bad too, so it felt like there was no escape from the feeling of dread. I had to stay at college to appear like I was doing school work so I was essentially trapped there.
Months went by and regret lurked around my shoulder no matter where I went. Even college students studying was a constant reminder that I never did study and that I'm a failure. That depression crept in again and I felt lonely more than anything. More lonely than I had ever felt before. Miles away from everyone I loved, no classes/clubs/activities to attend, no friends to share stories with, no partner share feelings with, no family to keep an eye on me - no more purpose. Video games were my best friend during these times, and I almost lost my grip on that too.
I was going Hollow. I had ran through all of my games...
Except one.
I loaded up my character to accept the challenge once again. This time I couldn't lose because I didn't have anything else to run to, so with everything on the line I swiftly rid of the two gargoyles. I did it! The things that had been causing me so much trouble before are finally out my way. I made my up the ladder to ring the first bell. The feeling of accomplishment I got from this was something unlike anything I had felt for the past months, which is what got me invested in the game.
There was a seemingly insurmountable force ahead of me, but yet through my own development of skills and thinking of different strategies, I was able to beat them easily. Could this be what Dark Souls is? If it is, I didn't want to give this up.
Through the messages on the ground, invasions, and player summons I learned that this community is absolutely priceless. I watched video after video about the game's lore, builds, tips and tricks, anything I could get my hands on. Long story short, I beat the game.
This is where I realized that through my own sheer determination, will, confidence, and human spirit I could accomplish anything. I felt that my dark soul was truly starting to come out, my true self that I kept so suppressed within me during the school year. The real icing on the cake is when I was listening to ds2 ost and then came upon the song titled "Longing". It is the end credits theme for the original ds2. This the first time I have ever balled my eyes out to ANYTHING. I couldn't even get close to shedding a tear watching the saddest movie ever made, but this song got to me. These weren't tears of sadness, though. They were tears of joy.
It felt like lifting a fog over not only my head, but my heart too. After listening, I can remember feeling whole again. Like my human side finally returned to me to greet me. My depression faded and my mood quickly became better. Life was becoming good once again. Now I had the ability to see things in a positive light and not in an "everything is over because I failed" way. I started working like I was supposed to but never did (because I was overwhelmed as I mentioned). In plan on starting to get into shape soon and maybe even get a dog. As far as my grades go, I withdrew so I never failed (technically). I am looking towards the future of continuing college with my newfound attitude and outlook on life.
If you read all that, thank you so much. As always guys
Don't you dare go hollow.
Don't say it--
Jackpot
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My grades started to slip and I felt even more stressed and pressure to get a good grade at the end of the semester. This weight had I had on myself was too much, and actively lashed out in my room from the work I had to catch up on. It got so bad that my anger just turned into sadness and crying laying on the floor. This happened frequently until the semester ended. Even though the work load was over for a small time, I still felt bad since I didn't really get the grades I wanted. Alas, winter break began in December.
This is when I discovered Elden Ring. I was walking the path of grace, yet I couldn't see it... I played it for the gameplay and hype alone which was really fun. So fun that I got burned out and switched games once I cleared everything up until the Altus Plateau. I forgot about it, effectively shutting out my window to true freedom for a while.
The day is Christmas, 2022. I get some cash and spend it on Dark Souls Remastered. I am immediately hit with that "yucky old graphics" feeling the second I see my character. I do as any sane souls player would do and choose Ryan Reynolds and the Master Key. I picked Knight for my first class as I thought that made the most sense. I got in and went through the tutorial prison blah blah blah. Rested at Firelink Shrine and tried to go to New Londo Ruins and wondered why this game was so god damn hard. I said whatever, guess that's not where I'm supposed to be yet. I go to the graveyard by the catacombs and at this point I about quit the game.
Eventually I learned where to go and found the combat to be much better (who would have guessed?). I started progressing more until I hit the Bell Gargoyles. Struggled super hard even with Solaire as a summon. I ran out of humanity after a number of attempts so I put the game down altogether. Keep in mind, I was in not the best emotional/mental state this whole time so I was very prone to giving up. I guess this was it for Dark Souls. For now.
Second semester rolls around and I feel like I can do it right this time. I learned a decent amount of new study skills and made some mistakes that I learned from, so I should have this in the bag. Classes go well the first few weeks, and then I stop. I just quit doing my work. I thought to myself, "I'll just do it tomorrow" or "After this one game". I never did. I lived on campus pretending like I was still a college student. This whole time I felt down on myself and guilty for doing this to myself. My parents would be super disappointed if I told them the truth, so I lied to them. Lying made me feel bad too, so it felt like there was no escape from the feeling of dread. I had to stay at college to appear like I was doing school work so I was essentially trapped there.
Months went by and regret lurked around my shoulder no matter where I went. Even college students studying was a constant reminder that I never did study and that I'm a failure. That depression crept in again and I felt lonely more than anything. More lonely than I had ever felt before. Miles away from everyone I loved, no classes/clubs/activities to attend, no friends to share stories with, no partner share feelings with, no family to keep an eye on me - no more purpose. Video games were my best friend during these times, and I almost lost my grip on that too.
I was going Hollow. I had ran through all of my games...
Except one.
I loaded up my character to accept the challenge once again. This time I couldn't lose because I didn't have anything else to run to, so with everything on the line I swiftly rid of the two gargoyles. I did it! The things that had been causing me so much trouble before are finally out my way. I made my up the ladder to ring the first bell. The feeling of accomplishment I got from this was something unlike anything I had felt for the past months, which is what got me invested in the game.
There was a seemingly insurmountable force ahead of me, but yet through my own development of skills and thinking of different strategies, I was able to beat them easily. Could this be what Dark Souls is? If it is, I didn't want to give this up.
Through the messages on the ground, invasions, and player summons I learned that this community is absolutely priceless. I watched video after video about the game's lore, builds, tips and tricks, anything I could get my hands on. Long story short, I beat the game.
This is where I realized that through my own sheer determination, will, confidence, and human spirit I could accomplish anything. I felt that my dark soul was truly starting to come out, my true self that I kept so suppressed within me during the school year. The real icing on the cake is when I was listening to ds2 ost and then came upon the song titled "Longing". It is the end credits theme for the original ds2. This the first time I have ever balled my eyes out to ANYTHING. I couldn't even get close to shedding a tear watching the saddest movie ever made, but this song got to me. These weren't tears of sadness, though. They were tears of joy.
It felt like lifting a fog over not only my head, but my heart too. After listening, I can remember feeling whole again. Like my human side finally returned to me to greet me. My depression faded and my mood quickly became better. Life was becoming good once again. Now I had the ability to see things in a positive light and not in an "everything is over because I failed" way. I started working like I was supposed to but never did (because I was overwhelmed as I mentioned). In plan on starting to get into shape soon and maybe even get a dog. As far as my grades go, I withdrew so I never failed (technically). I am looking towards the future of continuing college with my newfound attitude and outlook on life.
If you read all that, thank you so much. As always guys
Don't you dare go hollow.
Don't say it--
Jackpot
2023.06.05 09:14 MundaneHamster6752 cry proof setting spray recs?
I know I’m getting engaged soon and I am absolutely a crier! I want my makeup to stay in place through the happy tears and everything, any recs?
I’ve heard that Ben nye final seal is good but may cause break outs- I’m imagining testing it out this week only to break out when it actually happens next week!
I usually use urban decay setting spray, but have never cried in it so I’m not sure if it will hold up!
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I’ve heard that Ben nye final seal is good but may cause break outs- I’m imagining testing it out this week only to break out when it actually happens next week!
I usually use urban decay setting spray, but have never cried in it so I’m not sure if it will hold up!
2023.06.05 09:12 icapaige427 How to support 4yo after moving across the country?
Hello all, I browsed this sub a little bit and am not sure if this is the right one but I'll try!
My son is 4 years old and got diagnosed with level 1 autism. He is usually very well behaved and is super sweet.
However, we recently moved across the country and it has been extremely hard for him. He lost his "person" (grandma) and is now struggling. I am doing my best to help him with the transition but I don't know if I am pushing him too hard.
Some background:
We needed to live with my MIL for a year when he was 1-2 (COVID). She became his person and was also his daycare provider. However, she didn't follow any boundaries and spoiled him. He does not know the meaning of no because she will buy whatever we don't. She also gave him whatever he wanted to eat and would never encourage him to try new foods.
Now that we moved it is a shock to his system because he doesn't get whatever he wants whenever he wants it. I am trying to slowly transition him away from eating junk all the time but I don't know how to convince him that new food won't kill him. I have a stock of his favorite foods (Kraft dinnechicken nuggets) so that he won't go hungry but I always feel like I'm "giving in" when I feed it to him. But he won't try new food if he knows that those two are options. I never force him to eat. I always make a plate of what we are eating and ask him to try something - even just licking it, using sweets as a reward since he is always asking for some. But I am normally unsuccessful and he ends up eating KD.
I do bring him shopping with me to try and get him to choose something with varying success (got him to switch to cheerios instead of lucky charms!)
Another thing is the meltdowns. I knew to expect them with the move but.... I don't know how to handle them. My husband does not understand or have the patience and makes everything worse and I just don't know what to do. I try to bring him to his bedroom and cuddle with him (he gets anxious if I leave him). Once he is calm enough I try to talk him through what happened and what we could change. Is there anything else I can do?
Finally bedtime! He always needs someone is bed with him as he falls asleep, but the closer he gets to sleep, the more he fights it and he gets violent- biting, kicking, hitting. Usually I give him 3 warnings then walk out of the room for 5-10 minutes (depending on what I hear on the other side of the door - if he is being destructive I don't reenter) I will then ask if he is ready for me to come back in and start everything over again. The third time I leave, I don't come back because I am usually past my breaking point then. Am I doing this all wrong and making things worse? He tells me he doesn't like it when I leave and I have tried to explain to him that I don't like it when he hurts me. I feel like a failure.
If you read all this, thank you. Any and all advice will be read and appreciated, even if I don't respond. If you have any questions, let me know!
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My son is 4 years old and got diagnosed with level 1 autism. He is usually very well behaved and is super sweet.
However, we recently moved across the country and it has been extremely hard for him. He lost his "person" (grandma) and is now struggling. I am doing my best to help him with the transition but I don't know if I am pushing him too hard.
Some background:
We needed to live with my MIL for a year when he was 1-2 (COVID). She became his person and was also his daycare provider. However, she didn't follow any boundaries and spoiled him. He does not know the meaning of no because she will buy whatever we don't. She also gave him whatever he wanted to eat and would never encourage him to try new foods.
Now that we moved it is a shock to his system because he doesn't get whatever he wants whenever he wants it. I am trying to slowly transition him away from eating junk all the time but I don't know how to convince him that new food won't kill him. I have a stock of his favorite foods (Kraft dinnechicken nuggets) so that he won't go hungry but I always feel like I'm "giving in" when I feed it to him. But he won't try new food if he knows that those two are options. I never force him to eat. I always make a plate of what we are eating and ask him to try something - even just licking it, using sweets as a reward since he is always asking for some. But I am normally unsuccessful and he ends up eating KD.
I do bring him shopping with me to try and get him to choose something with varying success (got him to switch to cheerios instead of lucky charms!)
Another thing is the meltdowns. I knew to expect them with the move but.... I don't know how to handle them. My husband does not understand or have the patience and makes everything worse and I just don't know what to do. I try to bring him to his bedroom and cuddle with him (he gets anxious if I leave him). Once he is calm enough I try to talk him through what happened and what we could change. Is there anything else I can do?
Finally bedtime! He always needs someone is bed with him as he falls asleep, but the closer he gets to sleep, the more he fights it and he gets violent- biting, kicking, hitting. Usually I give him 3 warnings then walk out of the room for 5-10 minutes (depending on what I hear on the other side of the door - if he is being destructive I don't reenter) I will then ask if he is ready for me to come back in and start everything over again. The third time I leave, I don't come back because I am usually past my breaking point then. Am I doing this all wrong and making things worse? He tells me he doesn't like it when I leave and I have tried to explain to him that I don't like it when he hurts me. I feel like a failure.
If you read all this, thank you. Any and all advice will be read and appreciated, even if I don't respond. If you have any questions, let me know!
2023.06.05 09:12 pixieshit Solve all the puzzles, win the game.
Hi, my name is kari lilt. I'm a surrealist watercolourist from Sydney australia.
A few years ago I thought about making a puzzle game on my site where the winner wins 1 ethereum.
I worked on it for months and I've finally finished it, not sure where to post it!
I swear it's not a scam lol it's just a labour of love! You def don't need to connect your wallet or anything - I don't know how to code, don't know anything about that. If you're worried you can play it on a spare laptop or computer that isn't linked to any metamask wallets or anything.
Tha game is on my website - www.karililt.com
The password is "dao".
A few considerations:
+ Only works on desktop.
+ There can only be 1 winner pretty much
+ You may cheat, but you won't necessarily solve it faster, and it's much more fun to play fair.
+ I'm not really gaining anything from this game in terms of money. In fact I'll be losing 1 eth and have already lost like hundreds of hours of my time making it. But I loved every second of making it!
+ If you find any glitches / malfunctions please DM me so I can fix it.
Some preliminary clues- * talk to everyone in the game. They will help, even if they seem reluctant. * always follow the white rabbit ;) * don't forget to save kari. People keep forgetting
You may also DM me or message my site chatbot for clues if you're stuck!
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A few years ago I thought about making a puzzle game on my site where the winner wins 1 ethereum.
I worked on it for months and I've finally finished it, not sure where to post it!
I swear it's not a scam lol it's just a labour of love! You def don't need to connect your wallet or anything - I don't know how to code, don't know anything about that. If you're worried you can play it on a spare laptop or computer that isn't linked to any metamask wallets or anything.
Tha game is on my website - www.karililt.com
The password is "dao".
A few considerations:
+ Only works on desktop.
+ There can only be 1 winner pretty much
+ You may cheat, but you won't necessarily solve it faster, and it's much more fun to play fair.
+ I'm not really gaining anything from this game in terms of money. In fact I'll be losing 1 eth and have already lost like hundreds of hours of my time making it. But I loved every second of making it!
+ If you find any glitches / malfunctions please DM me so I can fix it.
Some preliminary clues- * talk to everyone in the game. They will help, even if they seem reluctant. * always follow the white rabbit ;) * don't forget to save kari. People keep forgetting
You may also DM me or message my site chatbot for clues if you're stuck!
2023.06.05 09:11 CheapChampionship775 I almost got hit by a semi-truck
I don’t know if this story belongs on this sub, but here it is: I was driving to school at around 8:40 AM. It’s a 40 minute drive and 20 minutes of it is straight down one road that is 55 MPH and has three lanes. It was called a “highway” but it wasn’t really a highway. It’s hill country where I live, so the road constantly went up and down in elevation. I was on this road when I came up over a hill. I was going about 65 MPH, maybe 70, but when I got over the hill, I slowed to 60 MPH because I noticed an 18-wheeler in the middle lane in front of me, practically stopped in the road. There was a crossover car behind it as well, going slow with it and blocking the back of the truck. I was driving in the middle lane too, so I started to switch to the left lane to pass the truck and car. There was construction for a median on the “highway”, so in the left lane, there were construction workers right beside the road. When I saw this, I switched my blinker to the right side, because it’s habit to move out of the way when I see an unprotected person on the side of the road. I’m still going 60 MPH while this 18-wheeler is dead stopped in the middle of the road, so this is all happening very fast. I get in the right lane a little before coming up on the truck, and as soon as I get beside the car stuck behind the truck, I see the 18-wheeler’s right blinker is on. I almost slammed on my breaks, but I kept going because, again, I’m going 60 MPH, he’s completely stopped, I was gonna get past him in less than a second, but as soon as I got to the edge of the back of the truck, the truck started getting into the right lane. So what do I do? Well I swerve onto the grass and ditches (there was no shoulder on the road) at 60 mph. I have a Nissan Altima coupe, and I have less than 2 years of driving experience. My coupe made it through the ditches completely unharmed, and I did too, pulling back onto the road at 40 MPH, then slowing down and pulling over to regain my composure and cry. What scared me the most is that I didn’t have a seatbelt on, and I would’ve most likely died if he hit me, or if my car flipped from going in a ditch so fast. But someway, somehow, this 18 year old girl whipped her car professionally (completely inexperienced on how to do it) to save her life. I blame this one on God, because there’s no way I was able to do that by myself. Now I have slight ptsd from it and will not ride on the right side of 18-wheelers… or without a seatbelt.
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2023.06.05 09:11 RandomistShadows I'm tired of fronting
I don't have anyone in person who I feel comfortable to talk about this with right now so I'm putting this here. It's technically a vent so please proceed with caution.
Hi, I'm Aaron and the host of our system. I recently found out about said system around like 3 months ago or so? I don't know it's hard to keep track of. Anyway. I've been fronting for 5 days straight, and before that 9 days (7 of which no one in headspace spoke to me). There was a 30 minute break between these. While it's not honestly that long for a lot of systems and alters, it's a really long time for me. And it sucks because I'm the host and I'm supposed to do this, right? But it's so draining.
Because I've only recently discovered the others I'm having tons of denial and imposter syndrome. It doesn't help that when others are finally able to co-front with me, we can barely communicate. I'll talk to them and get either no response or an inaudible mumble. I don't think they are doing it on purpose or anything as they normally talk to me consistently and clearly.
But these past 2 weeks have been hard. I don't want to be fronting anymore. This is the longest I've fronted since figuring it out. I don't know, I just needed to vent I guess. This sucks.
Any replies are welcome, I mostly just want comfort I guess? I don't know, thank you for reading this /g
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Hi, I'm Aaron and the host of our system. I recently found out about said system around like 3 months ago or so? I don't know it's hard to keep track of. Anyway. I've been fronting for 5 days straight, and before that 9 days (7 of which no one in headspace spoke to me). There was a 30 minute break between these. While it's not honestly that long for a lot of systems and alters, it's a really long time for me. And it sucks because I'm the host and I'm supposed to do this, right? But it's so draining.
Because I've only recently discovered the others I'm having tons of denial and imposter syndrome. It doesn't help that when others are finally able to co-front with me, we can barely communicate. I'll talk to them and get either no response or an inaudible mumble. I don't think they are doing it on purpose or anything as they normally talk to me consistently and clearly.
But these past 2 weeks have been hard. I don't want to be fronting anymore. This is the longest I've fronted since figuring it out. I don't know, I just needed to vent I guess. This sucks.
Any replies are welcome, I mostly just want comfort I guess? I don't know, thank you for reading this /g
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2023.06.05 09:09 Slow-Truck-9496 Best MSME Registration in Hyderabad
MSME Registration in Hyderabad - As the name suggests, MSME refers to businesses or sectors that fall under the categories of micro, small, and medium enterprises. These businesses may be at the medium level, below the medium level, or even below the below-medium level in terms of the products, services, and capital they contribute to achieving their corporate objectives.
Micro, Small and Medium Businesses Development (MSMED) Act of 2006 stipulates that the MSME is divided into two categories, namely manufacturing businesses, service businesses. Consequently, investments in plant and machinery are used to identify the manufacturing sectors, whereas investments in equipment are used to define the service provider industries.
Benefits of MSME Registration in Hyderabad
Simple Accessibility to Bank Loans:
All banks are prepared to lend money to different industries based on how they are set up, and in addition, since MSME registration in Hyderabad are acknowledged by banks, they provide financial support at a lower interest rate than a conventional business rate.
Tax refunds provided by the MSME Act of 2006:
MSME Businesses in Hyderabad that are eligible for the government's multiple tax exemption programme and capital gains tax benefits.
Easy Access to Credit:
PM Modi launched the Mudra Yojana Program, which offers loans to MSMEs without security. And businesses can benefit from this plan to expand their operations.
Take Use of State Government Benefits:
Most states and union territories offer subsidies on power, taxes, access to state-run industries, capital investment subsidies, and are also excluded from sales tax to those businesses that have registered under the MSMED Act.
Receiving Funds from the Central Governments:
Businesses can easily qualify for bank loans with priority sector lending, excise exemption plans, direct tax law exemptions, cheaper interest rates, support like reservations, etc. In addition to this, the federal government periodically announces different programmes for MSMEs that they can take advantage of and that foster an atmosphere for opportunities.
Registration Process ofMSME registration Hyderabad?
Almost all processes are in digital era, whether formal or informal, may be completed via the internet. MSME online Registration in Hyderabad can done fast and easily with the help of official website. You can fill out a registration form on the MSME website by uploading the required documentation.Once you have completed the required fields, you must complete the online payment.
The executive will process your application after you have finished filling out the registration form and completing your payment. You will receive a certification to the email address you entered on the registration form once everything has been completed successfully.
Registration Documents Required for MSME/Udyam in Hyderabad
PAN card
In India, a PAN card is used as identification in all financial activities. Every taxpayer receives a 10-digit identification number from the Income Tax Department. This must be given by the business owner. It is a crucial record necessary for MSME/Udyam Registration.
Aadhaar card
The Aadhar is a second important document needed for MSME/Udyam Registration in Hyderabad. Every Indian citizen now has access to the 12-digit Aadhaar card, a unique identification number provided by the Indian government. It contains biometric data, including fingerprint and iris scans, making it a trustworthy document for establishing identification and residency.
Evidence of a Business Address
Finally, another Udyog Aadhar document that serves as confirmation of the registered address of your company is required. This could come in the form of a lease, an electricity bill, or a receipt for real estate taxes. But, it must include the owner's name, the company's name, and its address.
GSTIN
If your company is a GST-registered firm, you must also supply your GSTIN. GST is an indirect tax that is imposed in India on the production, sale, and consumption of goods and services. Companies who have a revenue of more than Rs. 20 lakhs are required to register for GST.
Why an Enterprise Needs MSME Registration Certificate in Hyderabad?
It is not legally required for a company or enterprise to obtain an MSME registration certificate, but you must do so in order to benefit from the Udyam Scheme, which allows an organisation to develop into a mature organisation.
We will therefore continue to remind you that enrolling your business in the MSME programme entitles you to a number of government benefits, such as lower interest rates, an excise exemption programme for a number of specific goods, tax breaks, exemption from direct tax laws, power tariff subsidies, capital investment subsidies, etc.
If you require our support, we will assist you in obtaining your MSME registration certificate in Hyderabad, Karnataka, or any other Indian city within a predetermined time frame
MSME registration fees in Hyderabad
The official government portal's registration process for Micro, Small, and Medium Businesses is completely free of charge in order to facilitate and promote more widespread and regular registration of these service enterprises with the government.
Yet, a number of service providers charge a fee for providing specialised services such automatic or accurate completion on behalf of the applicant.MSME registration fees in Hyderabad, vary from agent to finish Udyog Registration under Micro, Small & Medium Businesses from any location in the nation.
How to Get MSME Registration in Hyderabad ?
In order to receive the UAM (Udyog Aadhaar Memorandum) number in India, you must go through the Udyog Aadhaar registration process, which we wish to make clear here.MSME Consultant Hyderabad works with you to meet all of your financial and legal needs and connects you to reliable professionals . Indeed, our clients are happy with the legal services we provide. They continually hold us in high respect and provide regular updates as a result of our focus on making legal obligations simple.
Also, our users may always keep tabs on the development of our platform. Our knowledgeable specialists are available by phone if you have any queries about the GST Registration procedure. Bizivalue will make sure that you have pleasant and seamless interactions with professionals.
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Micro, Small and Medium Businesses Development (MSMED) Act of 2006 stipulates that the MSME is divided into two categories, namely manufacturing businesses, service businesses. Consequently, investments in plant and machinery are used to identify the manufacturing sectors, whereas investments in equipment are used to define the service provider industries.
Benefits of MSME Registration in Hyderabad
Simple Accessibility to Bank Loans:
All banks are prepared to lend money to different industries based on how they are set up, and in addition, since MSME registration in Hyderabad are acknowledged by banks, they provide financial support at a lower interest rate than a conventional business rate.
Tax refunds provided by the MSME Act of 2006:
MSME Businesses in Hyderabad that are eligible for the government's multiple tax exemption programme and capital gains tax benefits.
Easy Access to Credit:
PM Modi launched the Mudra Yojana Program, which offers loans to MSMEs without security. And businesses can benefit from this plan to expand their operations.
Take Use of State Government Benefits:
Most states and union territories offer subsidies on power, taxes, access to state-run industries, capital investment subsidies, and are also excluded from sales tax to those businesses that have registered under the MSMED Act.
Receiving Funds from the Central Governments:
Businesses can easily qualify for bank loans with priority sector lending, excise exemption plans, direct tax law exemptions, cheaper interest rates, support like reservations, etc. In addition to this, the federal government periodically announces different programmes for MSMEs that they can take advantage of and that foster an atmosphere for opportunities.
Registration Process ofMSME registration Hyderabad?
Almost all processes are in digital era, whether formal or informal, may be completed via the internet. MSME online Registration in Hyderabad can done fast and easily with the help of official website. You can fill out a registration form on the MSME website by uploading the required documentation.Once you have completed the required fields, you must complete the online payment.
The executive will process your application after you have finished filling out the registration form and completing your payment. You will receive a certification to the email address you entered on the registration form once everything has been completed successfully.
Registration Documents Required for MSME/Udyam in Hyderabad
PAN card
In India, a PAN card is used as identification in all financial activities. Every taxpayer receives a 10-digit identification number from the Income Tax Department. This must be given by the business owner. It is a crucial record necessary for MSME/Udyam Registration.
Aadhaar card
The Aadhar is a second important document needed for MSME/Udyam Registration in Hyderabad. Every Indian citizen now has access to the 12-digit Aadhaar card, a unique identification number provided by the Indian government. It contains biometric data, including fingerprint and iris scans, making it a trustworthy document for establishing identification and residency.
Evidence of a Business Address
Finally, another Udyog Aadhar document that serves as confirmation of the registered address of your company is required. This could come in the form of a lease, an electricity bill, or a receipt for real estate taxes. But, it must include the owner's name, the company's name, and its address.
GSTIN
If your company is a GST-registered firm, you must also supply your GSTIN. GST is an indirect tax that is imposed in India on the production, sale, and consumption of goods and services. Companies who have a revenue of more than Rs. 20 lakhs are required to register for GST.
Why an Enterprise Needs MSME Registration Certificate in Hyderabad?
It is not legally required for a company or enterprise to obtain an MSME registration certificate, but you must do so in order to benefit from the Udyam Scheme, which allows an organisation to develop into a mature organisation.
We will therefore continue to remind you that enrolling your business in the MSME programme entitles you to a number of government benefits, such as lower interest rates, an excise exemption programme for a number of specific goods, tax breaks, exemption from direct tax laws, power tariff subsidies, capital investment subsidies, etc.
If you require our support, we will assist you in obtaining your MSME registration certificate in Hyderabad, Karnataka, or any other Indian city within a predetermined time frame
MSME registration fees in Hyderabad
The official government portal's registration process for Micro, Small, and Medium Businesses is completely free of charge in order to facilitate and promote more widespread and regular registration of these service enterprises with the government.
Yet, a number of service providers charge a fee for providing specialised services such automatic or accurate completion on behalf of the applicant.MSME registration fees in Hyderabad, vary from agent to finish Udyog Registration under Micro, Small & Medium Businesses from any location in the nation.
How to Get MSME Registration in Hyderabad ?
In order to receive the UAM (Udyog Aadhaar Memorandum) number in India, you must go through the Udyog Aadhaar registration process, which we wish to make clear here.MSME Consultant Hyderabad works with you to meet all of your financial and legal needs and connects you to reliable professionals . Indeed, our clients are happy with the legal services we provide. They continually hold us in high respect and provide regular updates as a result of our focus on making legal obligations simple.
Also, our users may always keep tabs on the development of our platform. Our knowledgeable specialists are available by phone if you have any queries about the GST Registration procedure. Bizivalue will make sure that you have pleasant and seamless interactions with professionals.
2023.06.05 09:07 Offmychest827364 I ruined a best friendship and was a terrible ex
Before my story starts, I want to give a trigger warning for suicide and self harm, as well as stalking and harassment. Please don't read any further if these are things which upset you or cause you any discomfort. With that being said, do not EVER, under any circumstances, act the way I do in this story and please get help if you have even the smallest compulsion of obsession. You can recover and get the help you need.
I was in my early 20's, struggling with clinical suicidal depression for over a decade. A friend of mine had been with this girl for about a year, but their relationship was rocky pretty much the whole way through. I was supportive to both of them as a friend during their relationship troubles, but always put my boy first. Always encouraged her to weather the storm. Eventually she did the best thing for herself and ended the relationship. I was supportive of both of them, but pretty much cut off all contact with the girl.
Six months pass, and I randomly get a text from the girl about getting a piercing and sent a picture to show it off. She mentioned that she pretty much sent it to me because she didn't have any friends to talk to about getting the piercing, and figured I'd be cool to talk about it. At the time, a video game had just come out that was super grind-heavy, and told her that she could call if she wanted to chat since I could use the company during the monotony. So she called. We chatted for like five hours, just shooting the shit. Nothing major, just catching up since we hadn't talked in a long time. This evolved into her coming over to my place every day for a week or two in which we would be having dinner, watching movies, having deep and lighthearted conversations before I realized that I'd caught feelings for her.
I was really conflicted. This was my best friend's ex. I had asked him early on about if he was cool with us talking or hanging out despite them not being in a relationship anymore. He was supportive, and was like "You don't gotta worry about that, man. She was your friend when she was my ex. You don't gotta worry about talking to her." But I knew that I wouldn't be able to talk to her about my feelings without telling him first. I called him up and asked him to come over for dinner and drinks.
After we'd finished eating, I pretty much brought him up to speed. He was definitely not comfortable with hearing the news, but he wasn't violent or anything. He pretty much told me that it wasn't up to him and that it was out of his control. I remember him saying "If you two get together, you better last." I tried explaining to him that it wasn't planned, that it just happened organically, but that obviously didn't make him feel any better about it. He said he didn't want to be involved in anything going forward and that whatever happens happens. We ended up going through a pretty bad falling out after he found out about the relationship formed. I've never spoken to him since.
Anyway, the next day, the girl came over to watch a movie like usual. After the movie was over, I told her about my feelings. She wasn't really all that receptive and kind of went silent. We didn't talk all that much before she went home. She told me over text later on in the middle of the night that she felt weird, because she just wanted us to be friends. I felt pretty defeated inside, but understood. I told her that we could keep calling or hanging out and we'd just be buds. Everything went pretty much back to normal after that.
That is, until a couple days later. She had been frantically texting me from the hospital. She was having suicidal thoughts and was afraid of being a harm to herself. She was possibly going to be committed to the psychiatric ward, and when that possibility arose, and she knew she wouldn't be able to talk to me, she went into a panic. I told her that she would be okay, and that I'd be here for her when she got out if that was the case. She then said that they were about to confiscate her phone for a psych screening, and that afterwards they would evaluate whether or not to commit her, but that she had a final message. It went something along the lines of "Hey. Umm. I don't know how to say this. But I love you. But I don't know how I mean it." I said that I loved her too, and to be strong.
In my head, I figured this to be her reciprocating the feelings that I had for her. I was excited but also somewhat uneasy inside because I didn't know for sure. I was super tired at the time, and texted her to call me and wake me up if she wasn't getting committed. After thinking about it a while, I went for a nap. I was woken up by a text saying "Guess who's about to get woke the fuck up, beeitch?" and a phone call.
She had just gotten home. We pretty much went over the events at the hospital, and then I asked about the whole "I love you" thing. She said that she didn't know what it meant but that she felt the need to tell me. I was flirtatiously telling her that if she loves me, to say it over the phone. She was saying that she was too shy. I told her that she said it over text, she can say it out loud too. She eventually said it, and I said that I love her too. She kept saying it. Over and over. We must have said it to each other repeatedly for twenty minutes. The floodgates of emotions were let loose.
I was really happy. After being depressed for so long, I felt such a crazy amount of dopamine that I was ecstatic. She had mentioned so much to me in the following weeks, like how she always had thought of me as being the emotional buffer throughout her relationship with my best friend, and wished that she was in a relationship with me instead. The relationship was fun. We had lots of fun in the moment. This went on for about two months before I noticed a change.
She started being super distant. She wouldn't text me during work. She didn't want to come over for movies or talk on the phone anymore. She spent more and more time on her own. I started becoming an emotional wreck. I was being super clingy. She tried to tell me that she regretted telling me that she loved me, and that she wasn't thinking clearly when it happened. That she felt like I had pressured her into thinking that she meant "I love you" in a romantic way rather than platonic. I responded to it really poorly. I pressured her into continuing the relationship despite her not wanting it. This happened two more times in the coming weeks before we had finally broken up.
I was doing absolutely despicable things. I was stalking every interaction she had on social media (multiple sites). I was sending videos of me taking a ridiculous amount of Xanax. I was sending her pictures of empty prescription bottles. I was telling her that I was going to kill myself. I was trying everything I possibly could think of in my sick, twisted mind to get her to come back. The worst thing I did was send her a video of me taking about 20mg of Xanax with the caption "Dunno if I'll wake up from this lol." She had texted me probably 50 times while I was passed out and she was at class. Most of them were "Please be alive." She even said "I love you" like five times in desperation to get a response. I woke up and told her that I wish she hadn't said that because I knew it wasn't true.
Eventually she told me that she couldn't talk to me anymore and that if I died because of it, that it wasn't her fault. And when she did, I started messaging her on everything I could think of and telling her how much I loved her. How I didn't think anything but her and how perfect she was. How I didn't understand how she lost feelings for me because I did everything right. Begging her for an answer. Refusing every answer she gave me of being the truth.
I was so mentally unwell. I had romanticized both my depression and her inside my head beyond reality. She wasn't a human being. She was an angel that would rescue me from the darkness that I'd been stuck in for so long. After I was blocked from every social media account she had, as well as being unable to text or call her due to her changing her phone number, I was finally forced to face the truth. I was an absolute disaster of a person. I was burning myself with cigarettes, cutting myself with steak knives with the intention of leaving large scars, and hiding it all from everyone I knew. I went to therapy with the delusion of being reassured that I did nothing wrong in this whole situation.
My therapist was a godsend. He taught me about how awful of a person I was being and helped show me how sick I was. It took months of work for me to even realize how disgusting I was. I was completely delusional. I felt so bad. I was still obsessed with stalking her on social media, and I reached out on a burner account to apologize for everything I did. It was such a shitty apology, too.
She was receptive, but in retrospect I'm pretty sure she was only responding to me because she wanted to leave me with the idea that we were cool to avoid me reaching out in hysterics again. I even tried to manipulate myself back into her life by asking for her to introduce me to some new friends she had made that have similar interests to us. She politely declined and said that they'd definitely not like me after she'd confided in them about the trauma I'd caused her. She also told me to please never contact her again. I told her that would definitely be best. So I never did. And I stopped checking her social media.
I rarely think of her anymore, but the thing that I struggle with whenever I do, is that the way I acted and the trauma I caused this human being to be two of the biggest regrets of my life. The fact that I won't ever be able to truly apologize to this person for the rest of my life is incredibly difficult. I can't take any of the things I did back. I can't ever remove that trauma from her life. I've also kept this all a secret from my current girlfriend of six and a half years who I am in a wonderful, loving and mature relationship with. We plan on getting married and having kids within the next year. This secret is something I plan on taking to the grave.
I'm a completely different person than I was at that time in my life. But despite everything, I learned of every single toxic trait I had. And I learned to never, ever repeat any of the things I had done ever again. I learned so much about myself through years of therapy and that I was a powder keg of mental instability. My girlfriend would probably never think in a million years that I would have been capable of doing the things I'm admitting in this post.
I just wish it was possible for me to apologize to her for everything I'd done, and let her know that I wish her nothing but the best. I'd like to know that she's happy. Because she deserves it after everything I put her through. It's selfish, because it would make ME feel better. The best thing for this person is to probably go the rest of her life without ever hearing from me again, anyway. But I really do hope that they're happy out there somewhere.
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I was in my early 20's, struggling with clinical suicidal depression for over a decade. A friend of mine had been with this girl for about a year, but their relationship was rocky pretty much the whole way through. I was supportive to both of them as a friend during their relationship troubles, but always put my boy first. Always encouraged her to weather the storm. Eventually she did the best thing for herself and ended the relationship. I was supportive of both of them, but pretty much cut off all contact with the girl.
Six months pass, and I randomly get a text from the girl about getting a piercing and sent a picture to show it off. She mentioned that she pretty much sent it to me because she didn't have any friends to talk to about getting the piercing, and figured I'd be cool to talk about it. At the time, a video game had just come out that was super grind-heavy, and told her that she could call if she wanted to chat since I could use the company during the monotony. So she called. We chatted for like five hours, just shooting the shit. Nothing major, just catching up since we hadn't talked in a long time. This evolved into her coming over to my place every day for a week or two in which we would be having dinner, watching movies, having deep and lighthearted conversations before I realized that I'd caught feelings for her.
I was really conflicted. This was my best friend's ex. I had asked him early on about if he was cool with us talking or hanging out despite them not being in a relationship anymore. He was supportive, and was like "You don't gotta worry about that, man. She was your friend when she was my ex. You don't gotta worry about talking to her." But I knew that I wouldn't be able to talk to her about my feelings without telling him first. I called him up and asked him to come over for dinner and drinks.
After we'd finished eating, I pretty much brought him up to speed. He was definitely not comfortable with hearing the news, but he wasn't violent or anything. He pretty much told me that it wasn't up to him and that it was out of his control. I remember him saying "If you two get together, you better last." I tried explaining to him that it wasn't planned, that it just happened organically, but that obviously didn't make him feel any better about it. He said he didn't want to be involved in anything going forward and that whatever happens happens. We ended up going through a pretty bad falling out after he found out about the relationship formed. I've never spoken to him since.
Anyway, the next day, the girl came over to watch a movie like usual. After the movie was over, I told her about my feelings. She wasn't really all that receptive and kind of went silent. We didn't talk all that much before she went home. She told me over text later on in the middle of the night that she felt weird, because she just wanted us to be friends. I felt pretty defeated inside, but understood. I told her that we could keep calling or hanging out and we'd just be buds. Everything went pretty much back to normal after that.
That is, until a couple days later. She had been frantically texting me from the hospital. She was having suicidal thoughts and was afraid of being a harm to herself. She was possibly going to be committed to the psychiatric ward, and when that possibility arose, and she knew she wouldn't be able to talk to me, she went into a panic. I told her that she would be okay, and that I'd be here for her when she got out if that was the case. She then said that they were about to confiscate her phone for a psych screening, and that afterwards they would evaluate whether or not to commit her, but that she had a final message. It went something along the lines of "Hey. Umm. I don't know how to say this. But I love you. But I don't know how I mean it." I said that I loved her too, and to be strong.
In my head, I figured this to be her reciprocating the feelings that I had for her. I was excited but also somewhat uneasy inside because I didn't know for sure. I was super tired at the time, and texted her to call me and wake me up if she wasn't getting committed. After thinking about it a while, I went for a nap. I was woken up by a text saying "Guess who's about to get woke the fuck up, beeitch?" and a phone call.
She had just gotten home. We pretty much went over the events at the hospital, and then I asked about the whole "I love you" thing. She said that she didn't know what it meant but that she felt the need to tell me. I was flirtatiously telling her that if she loves me, to say it over the phone. She was saying that she was too shy. I told her that she said it over text, she can say it out loud too. She eventually said it, and I said that I love her too. She kept saying it. Over and over. We must have said it to each other repeatedly for twenty minutes. The floodgates of emotions were let loose.
I was really happy. After being depressed for so long, I felt such a crazy amount of dopamine that I was ecstatic. She had mentioned so much to me in the following weeks, like how she always had thought of me as being the emotional buffer throughout her relationship with my best friend, and wished that she was in a relationship with me instead. The relationship was fun. We had lots of fun in the moment. This went on for about two months before I noticed a change.
She started being super distant. She wouldn't text me during work. She didn't want to come over for movies or talk on the phone anymore. She spent more and more time on her own. I started becoming an emotional wreck. I was being super clingy. She tried to tell me that she regretted telling me that she loved me, and that she wasn't thinking clearly when it happened. That she felt like I had pressured her into thinking that she meant "I love you" in a romantic way rather than platonic. I responded to it really poorly. I pressured her into continuing the relationship despite her not wanting it. This happened two more times in the coming weeks before we had finally broken up.
I was doing absolutely despicable things. I was stalking every interaction she had on social media (multiple sites). I was sending videos of me taking a ridiculous amount of Xanax. I was sending her pictures of empty prescription bottles. I was telling her that I was going to kill myself. I was trying everything I possibly could think of in my sick, twisted mind to get her to come back. The worst thing I did was send her a video of me taking about 20mg of Xanax with the caption "Dunno if I'll wake up from this lol." She had texted me probably 50 times while I was passed out and she was at class. Most of them were "Please be alive." She even said "I love you" like five times in desperation to get a response. I woke up and told her that I wish she hadn't said that because I knew it wasn't true.
Eventually she told me that she couldn't talk to me anymore and that if I died because of it, that it wasn't her fault. And when she did, I started messaging her on everything I could think of and telling her how much I loved her. How I didn't think anything but her and how perfect she was. How I didn't understand how she lost feelings for me because I did everything right. Begging her for an answer. Refusing every answer she gave me of being the truth.
I was so mentally unwell. I had romanticized both my depression and her inside my head beyond reality. She wasn't a human being. She was an angel that would rescue me from the darkness that I'd been stuck in for so long. After I was blocked from every social media account she had, as well as being unable to text or call her due to her changing her phone number, I was finally forced to face the truth. I was an absolute disaster of a person. I was burning myself with cigarettes, cutting myself with steak knives with the intention of leaving large scars, and hiding it all from everyone I knew. I went to therapy with the delusion of being reassured that I did nothing wrong in this whole situation.
My therapist was a godsend. He taught me about how awful of a person I was being and helped show me how sick I was. It took months of work for me to even realize how disgusting I was. I was completely delusional. I felt so bad. I was still obsessed with stalking her on social media, and I reached out on a burner account to apologize for everything I did. It was such a shitty apology, too.
She was receptive, but in retrospect I'm pretty sure she was only responding to me because she wanted to leave me with the idea that we were cool to avoid me reaching out in hysterics again. I even tried to manipulate myself back into her life by asking for her to introduce me to some new friends she had made that have similar interests to us. She politely declined and said that they'd definitely not like me after she'd confided in them about the trauma I'd caused her. She also told me to please never contact her again. I told her that would definitely be best. So I never did. And I stopped checking her social media.
I rarely think of her anymore, but the thing that I struggle with whenever I do, is that the way I acted and the trauma I caused this human being to be two of the biggest regrets of my life. The fact that I won't ever be able to truly apologize to this person for the rest of my life is incredibly difficult. I can't take any of the things I did back. I can't ever remove that trauma from her life. I've also kept this all a secret from my current girlfriend of six and a half years who I am in a wonderful, loving and mature relationship with. We plan on getting married and having kids within the next year. This secret is something I plan on taking to the grave.
I'm a completely different person than I was at that time in my life. But despite everything, I learned of every single toxic trait I had. And I learned to never, ever repeat any of the things I had done ever again. I learned so much about myself through years of therapy and that I was a powder keg of mental instability. My girlfriend would probably never think in a million years that I would have been capable of doing the things I'm admitting in this post.
I just wish it was possible for me to apologize to her for everything I'd done, and let her know that I wish her nothing but the best. I'd like to know that she's happy. Because she deserves it after everything I put her through. It's selfish, because it would make ME feel better. The best thing for this person is to probably go the rest of her life without ever hearing from me again, anyway. But I really do hope that they're happy out there somewhere.
2023.06.05 09:03 AdBroad8498 Best MSME Registration in Bangalore:
What is MSME Registration in Bangalore?
MSME in Bangalore - As the name suggests, MSME refers to businesses or sectors that fall under the categories of micro, small, and medium enterprises. These businesses may be at the medium level, below the medium level, or even below the below-medium level in terms of the products, services, and capital they contribute to achieving their corporate objectives.
Micro, Small and Medium Businesses Development (MSMED) Act of 2006 stipulates that the MSME is divided into two categories, namely manufacturing businesses, service businesses.Consequently, investments in plant and machinery are used to identify the manufacturing sectors, whereas investments in equipment are used to define the service provider industries.
Benefits of MSME in Bangalore
Simple Accessibility to Bank Loans:
All banks are prepared to lend money to different industries based on how they are set up, and in addition, since MSME registration in Bangalore are acknowledged by banks, they provide financial support at a lower interest rate than a conventional business rate.
Tax refunds provided by the MSME Act of 2006:
MSME Businesses in Bangalore that are eligible for the government's multiple tax exemption programme and capital gains tax benefits.
Easy Access to Credit:
PM Modi launched the Mudra Yojana Program, which offers loans to MSMEs without security. And businesses can benefit from this plan to expand their operations.
Take Use of State Government Benefits:
Most states and union territories offer subsidies on power, taxes, access to state-run industries, capital investment subsidies, and are also excluded from sales tax to those businesses that have registered under the MSMED Act.
Receiving Funds from the Central Governments:
Businesses can easily qualify for bank loans with priority sector lending, excise exemption plans, direct tax law exemptions, cheaper interest rates, support like reservations, etc. In addition to this, the federal government periodically announces different programmes for MSMEs that they can take advantage of and that foster an atmosphere for opportunities.
Registration Process of MSME In Bangalore?
Almost all processes are in digital era, whether formal or informal, may be completed via the internet. MSME online Registration in Bangalore can done fast and easily with the help of official website. You can fill out a registration form on the MSME website by uploading the required documentation.Once you have completed the required fields, you must complete the online payment.
The executive will process your application after you have finished filling out the registration form and completing your payment. You will receive a certification to the email address you entered on the registration form once everything has been completed successfully.
Registration Documents Required for MSME/Udyam in Bangalore
PAN card
In India, a PAN card is used as identification in all financial activities. Every taxpayer receives a 10-digit identification number from the Income Tax Department. This must be given by the business owner. It is a crucial record necessary for MSME/Udyam Registration.
Aadhaar card
The Aadhar is a second important document needed for MSME/Udyam Registration in Bangalore. Every Indian citizen now has access to the 12-digit Aadhaar card, a unique identification number provided by the Indian government. It contains biometric data, including fingerprint and iris scans, making it a trustworthy document for establishing identification and residency.
Evidence of a Business Address
Finally, another Udyog Aadhar document that serves as confirmation of the registered address of your company is required. This could come in the form of a lease, an electricity bill, or a receipt for real estate taxes. But, it must include the owner's name, the company's name, and its address.
GSTIN
If your company is a GST-registered firm, you must also supply your GSTIN. GST is an indirect tax that is imposed in India on the production, sale, and consumption of goods and services. Companies who have a revenue of more than Rs. 20 lakhs are required to register for GST.
Why an Enterprise Needs MSME Registration Certificate in Bangalore?
It is not legally required for a company or enterprise to obtain an MSME registration certificate, but you must do so in order to benefit from the Udyam Scheme, which allows an organisation to develop into a mature organisation.
We will therefore continue to remind you that enrolling your business in the MSME programme entitles you to a number of government benefits, such as lower interest rates, an excise exemption programme for a number of specific goods, tax breaks, exemption from direct tax laws, power tariff subsidies, capital investment subsidies, etc.
If you require our support, we will assist you in obtaining your MSME registration certificate in Bangalore, Karnataka, or any other Indian city within a predetermined time frame
MSME registration fees in Bangalore
The official government portal's registration process for Micro, Small, and Medium Businesses is completely free of charge in order to facilitate and promote more widespread and regular registration of these service enterprises with the government.
Yet, a number of service providers charge a fee for providing specialised services such automatic or accurate completion on behalf of the applicant.MSME registration fees in Bangalore, vary from agent to finish Udyog Registration under Micro, Small & Medium Businesses from any location in the nation.
How to Get MSME Registration in Bangalore ?
In order to receive the UAM (Udyog Aadhaar Memorandum) number in India, you must go through the Udyog Aadhaar registration process, which we wish to make clear here.MSME Consultant Bangalore works with you to meet all of your financial and legal needs and connects you to reliable professionals . Indeed, our clients are happy with the legal services we provide. They continually hold us in high respect and provide regular updates as a result of our focus on making legal obligations simple.
Also, our users may always keep tabs on the development of our platform. Our knowledgeable specialists are available by phone if you have any queries about the GST Registration procedure. Bizivalue will make sure that you have pleasant and seamless interactions with professionals.
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MSME in Bangalore - As the name suggests, MSME refers to businesses or sectors that fall under the categories of micro, small, and medium enterprises. These businesses may be at the medium level, below the medium level, or even below the below-medium level in terms of the products, services, and capital they contribute to achieving their corporate objectives.
Micro, Small and Medium Businesses Development (MSMED) Act of 2006 stipulates that the MSME is divided into two categories, namely manufacturing businesses, service businesses.Consequently, investments in plant and machinery are used to identify the manufacturing sectors, whereas investments in equipment are used to define the service provider industries.
Benefits of MSME in Bangalore
Simple Accessibility to Bank Loans:
All banks are prepared to lend money to different industries based on how they are set up, and in addition, since MSME registration in Bangalore are acknowledged by banks, they provide financial support at a lower interest rate than a conventional business rate.
Tax refunds provided by the MSME Act of 2006:
MSME Businesses in Bangalore that are eligible for the government's multiple tax exemption programme and capital gains tax benefits.
Easy Access to Credit:
PM Modi launched the Mudra Yojana Program, which offers loans to MSMEs without security. And businesses can benefit from this plan to expand their operations.
Take Use of State Government Benefits:
Most states and union territories offer subsidies on power, taxes, access to state-run industries, capital investment subsidies, and are also excluded from sales tax to those businesses that have registered under the MSMED Act.
Receiving Funds from the Central Governments:
Businesses can easily qualify for bank loans with priority sector lending, excise exemption plans, direct tax law exemptions, cheaper interest rates, support like reservations, etc. In addition to this, the federal government periodically announces different programmes for MSMEs that they can take advantage of and that foster an atmosphere for opportunities.
Registration Process of MSME In Bangalore?
Almost all processes are in digital era, whether formal or informal, may be completed via the internet. MSME online Registration in Bangalore can done fast and easily with the help of official website. You can fill out a registration form on the MSME website by uploading the required documentation.Once you have completed the required fields, you must complete the online payment.
The executive will process your application after you have finished filling out the registration form and completing your payment. You will receive a certification to the email address you entered on the registration form once everything has been completed successfully.
Registration Documents Required for MSME/Udyam in Bangalore
PAN card
In India, a PAN card is used as identification in all financial activities. Every taxpayer receives a 10-digit identification number from the Income Tax Department. This must be given by the business owner. It is a crucial record necessary for MSME/Udyam Registration.
Aadhaar card
The Aadhar is a second important document needed for MSME/Udyam Registration in Bangalore. Every Indian citizen now has access to the 12-digit Aadhaar card, a unique identification number provided by the Indian government. It contains biometric data, including fingerprint and iris scans, making it a trustworthy document for establishing identification and residency.
Evidence of a Business Address
Finally, another Udyog Aadhar document that serves as confirmation of the registered address of your company is required. This could come in the form of a lease, an electricity bill, or a receipt for real estate taxes. But, it must include the owner's name, the company's name, and its address.
GSTIN
If your company is a GST-registered firm, you must also supply your GSTIN. GST is an indirect tax that is imposed in India on the production, sale, and consumption of goods and services. Companies who have a revenue of more than Rs. 20 lakhs are required to register for GST.
Why an Enterprise Needs MSME Registration Certificate in Bangalore?
It is not legally required for a company or enterprise to obtain an MSME registration certificate, but you must do so in order to benefit from the Udyam Scheme, which allows an organisation to develop into a mature organisation.
We will therefore continue to remind you that enrolling your business in the MSME programme entitles you to a number of government benefits, such as lower interest rates, an excise exemption programme for a number of specific goods, tax breaks, exemption from direct tax laws, power tariff subsidies, capital investment subsidies, etc.
If you require our support, we will assist you in obtaining your MSME registration certificate in Bangalore, Karnataka, or any other Indian city within a predetermined time frame
MSME registration fees in Bangalore
The official government portal's registration process for Micro, Small, and Medium Businesses is completely free of charge in order to facilitate and promote more widespread and regular registration of these service enterprises with the government.
Yet, a number of service providers charge a fee for providing specialised services such automatic or accurate completion on behalf of the applicant.MSME registration fees in Bangalore, vary from agent to finish Udyog Registration under Micro, Small & Medium Businesses from any location in the nation.
How to Get MSME Registration in Bangalore ?
In order to receive the UAM (Udyog Aadhaar Memorandum) number in India, you must go through the Udyog Aadhaar registration process, which we wish to make clear here.MSME Consultant Bangalore works with you to meet all of your financial and legal needs and connects you to reliable professionals . Indeed, our clients are happy with the legal services we provide. They continually hold us in high respect and provide regular updates as a result of our focus on making legal obligations simple.
Also, our users may always keep tabs on the development of our platform. Our knowledgeable specialists are available by phone if you have any queries about the GST Registration procedure. Bizivalue will make sure that you have pleasant and seamless interactions with professionals.
2023.06.05 09:02 goodmessenger Want to pivot from Mainframe to AI/ML engineering. Do I need to go back to school?
I have a BS in Electrical/Computer Engineering from an average university and have been working in the Mainframe industry since I graduated college around 4 years ago. Right now I make $160k as a mainframe tech consultant. I'm on track to make over $200k in a couple years. Problem is, I don't like what I do and it's starting to take a toll on my mental health. I feel stuck right now because much of the experience I've gained in the past 4 years is mainframe-specific and not transferrable to other jobs.
I want to pivot to working with technology that is more modern and exciting. AI/ML/data science in particular excite me not just because of the hype but because I have a genuine interest in them. Even if I can't go straight into AI/ML I think a move into a more modern software engineering job would be a huge step in the right direction. Now I'm trying to decide what steps I need to take to make the move. Going back to school for a grad degree and sacrificing $320k+ in salary + 2 years of tuition/living expenses sounds pretty terrible to me.
So, can I break into a more modern software engineering job without going back to school by learning the relevant skills, doing projects, and building a portfolio in my spare time? Is a good career in AI/ML achievable without a graduate degree for someone with my background?
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I want to pivot to working with technology that is more modern and exciting. AI/ML/data science in particular excite me not just because of the hype but because I have a genuine interest in them. Even if I can't go straight into AI/ML I think a move into a more modern software engineering job would be a huge step in the right direction. Now I'm trying to decide what steps I need to take to make the move. Going back to school for a grad degree and sacrificing $320k+ in salary + 2 years of tuition/living expenses sounds pretty terrible to me.
So, can I break into a more modern software engineering job without going back to school by learning the relevant skills, doing projects, and building a portfolio in my spare time? Is a good career in AI/ML achievable without a graduate degree for someone with my background?
2023.06.05 09:01 BYLDIndia Leadership Management and its Role in Strategic Change
We have all heard of the two separate words, leadership, and management. However, only some of us understand the mechanisms of what happens when both of these words come together.
Leadership management is a critical process of an organization that has an immense impact on the interactions and mechanisms associated with the processes of an organization. Breaking it down, a manager is responsible for handling the resources of the organization, including human resources. The manager functions as someone who plans and controls the organization’s processes. The planning that takes place is based on strategies that are defined by goals and objectives already set out by the organization. Within the organization, specific relationships are defined, such as the leaders who are the superiors and, of course, the subordinate employees. Decision-making takes place effectively when two of these criteria come together.
Our leader is a person who will motivate the employees to work harder and succeed. The leader will make strategic decisions impacting future company growth and success. If this strategy is appropriately negotiated and implemented, it will lead to company success. Therefore, leadership management effectively produces and implements strategies through actions that will benefit all.
Leadership management involves several steps that require unique skills and capabilities and the ability to use your knowledge and behavior according to situations. According to researchers, individual characteristics define organizational behavior; the leader will exist because of the group of people around them.
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Leadership management is a critical process of an organization that has an immense impact on the interactions and mechanisms associated with the processes of an organization. Breaking it down, a manager is responsible for handling the resources of the organization, including human resources. The manager functions as someone who plans and controls the organization’s processes. The planning that takes place is based on strategies that are defined by goals and objectives already set out by the organization. Within the organization, specific relationships are defined, such as the leaders who are the superiors and, of course, the subordinate employees. Decision-making takes place effectively when two of these criteria come together.
Our leader is a person who will motivate the employees to work harder and succeed. The leader will make strategic decisions impacting future company growth and success. If this strategy is appropriately negotiated and implemented, it will lead to company success. Therefore, leadership management effectively produces and implements strategies through actions that will benefit all.
Leadership Management and Leadership Training
86% of organizations understand that leadership training is critical for all organizations regarding long-term success. According to statistics, only 15% of employees feel their training is adequate for leadership development.Therefore, considering these numbers, there is always room for development regarding leadership training courses.
Leadership management involves several steps that require unique skills and capabilities and the ability to use your knowledge and behavior according to situations. According to researchers, individual characteristics define organizational behavior; the leader will exist because of the group of people around them.
- The first responsibility towards effective management is to create a vision and goal for the group you lead.
- Choosing a direction will help you implement strategies so that your leader can fulfill the group’s goals.
- Right from the creation of the vision to the final implementation of the strategy, our leader will play different roles and will have the necessity to possess attributes that will influence others. Therefore training continuously is mandatory.
Leadership and Management Change
Change is inevitable, so planning is crucial to adapt to the changing circumstances and understand what is coming our way. Changing the direction and shaping the organization are not always aligned with planning. To fulfill the role of an effective leader, the leader must ensure that they have all the information. Interact with the teams, make relationships, and then together forecast any evolutionary changes that can be made for the future. Fixing the direction of leadership in a company is vital, which is why leadership training courses can provide insights into leadership effectiveness.2023.06.05 09:00 depressedblunt Chef with ARDIF
Hello just found this sub recently and have been reading through a few of the post and figured i’d share my story and maybe get some advice to point me in the right direction. I’ve always had a negative relationship with food and due to being a “picky eater” and childhood ab*se i never really got help with my problems and would just go days without eating unless i cooked it for myself. My safe foods are Chicken tenders, fries, pizza (just pepperoni), and i can eat tacos and spaghetti if i make it myself.
Around high school once i started playing sports i went for my physical and told my doctor about my eating habits and he just brushed it off and said i’d grow out of it. This has been the case constantly so not even knowing ARFID was a thing it was starting to feel hopeless.
During the pandemic i started researching and realized this is definitely what i have and it brought me some hope that i’m not alone in my struggles. I’ve told my therapist about this and again i was just completely brushed off.
My relationship with food is very weird tho. I’m a Chef by trade and i love cooking but i won’t eat 99% of the things i make which i know is one of the greatest taboos i can commit has a chef but i can’t help it. I can like the idea of eating something hell my mouth will even water but when it comes to actually eating it i’ll either dissociate and have a full blown panic attack or i’ll try and eat it and even if i don’t hate it i’ll just start gagging until i throw up.
I know i’m not healthy and there’s no way i’m getting all the nutrients and vitamins i need but i’m not really sure where to go from here. Due to my Autism i’ll just forget to eat and won’t remember until i’m literally starving and in pain and at that point it’s very hard to find something appetizing. Even when i do find something appetizing i can get it and then mid way through i’m just repulsed by it or even the thought of it.
I know people in my life know i have some sort of eating quirk but not to the extent it is. It makes me extremely guilty too being a Chef from the South food is a love language and it feels like i’m just disrespecting people to their face not eating their food but i just can’t i’ll literally break down and cry before i even taste it
Idk i’m glad i have a label for it and i know i’m not alone but actually getting treatment or finding a plan towards getting better has been very challenging and i’m not really sure what to do. Sorry for my all over the place post/rant just feels good to finally get all this off my chest.
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Around high school once i started playing sports i went for my physical and told my doctor about my eating habits and he just brushed it off and said i’d grow out of it. This has been the case constantly so not even knowing ARFID was a thing it was starting to feel hopeless.
During the pandemic i started researching and realized this is definitely what i have and it brought me some hope that i’m not alone in my struggles. I’ve told my therapist about this and again i was just completely brushed off.
My relationship with food is very weird tho. I’m a Chef by trade and i love cooking but i won’t eat 99% of the things i make which i know is one of the greatest taboos i can commit has a chef but i can’t help it. I can like the idea of eating something hell my mouth will even water but when it comes to actually eating it i’ll either dissociate and have a full blown panic attack or i’ll try and eat it and even if i don’t hate it i’ll just start gagging until i throw up.
I know i’m not healthy and there’s no way i’m getting all the nutrients and vitamins i need but i’m not really sure where to go from here. Due to my Autism i’ll just forget to eat and won’t remember until i’m literally starving and in pain and at that point it’s very hard to find something appetizing. Even when i do find something appetizing i can get it and then mid way through i’m just repulsed by it or even the thought of it.
I know people in my life know i have some sort of eating quirk but not to the extent it is. It makes me extremely guilty too being a Chef from the South food is a love language and it feels like i’m just disrespecting people to their face not eating their food but i just can’t i’ll literally break down and cry before i even taste it
Idk i’m glad i have a label for it and i know i’m not alone but actually getting treatment or finding a plan towards getting better has been very challenging and i’m not really sure what to do. Sorry for my all over the place post/rant just feels good to finally get all this off my chest.
2023.06.05 08:57 tanaka-taro Received a phone with a broken seal on box from Samsung online store
After 1 month of fighting for a cashback being denied for no reason, I finally ppaced the order and received my phone.
Except it had a tampered seal, everything else seemed fine inside the box, but how can i trust a cut seal right?
Now I'm trying to escalate this as much as possible as they'll probably trouble me for discount again once I try placing a new order.
Have you guys ever kept a phone with such a seal? Because I'm considering it even though its foolish.
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Except it had a tampered seal, everything else seemed fine inside the box, but how can i trust a cut seal right?
Now I'm trying to escalate this as much as possible as they'll probably trouble me for discount again once I try placing a new order.
Have you guys ever kept a phone with such a seal? Because I'm considering it even though its foolish.
2023.06.05 08:54 hellsaquarium Writing is so hard
Why is it so damn hard? It’s been years since I’ve been writing but I’m just now barely putting myself out there for concrit because I want to improve but it’s still so hard for me to write and I make constant mistakes.
I don’t understand how people churn out 100k+ word fics like it’s nothing, or at least it seems that way since a lot of writers just post chapters every week or month without having to go through tons of edits or feeling stressed about constantly editing. I know that fanfiction is a hobby but for me it’s more than that. Yes it’s self indulgent and yes I want my fav characters to finally fuck but I also want to master storytelling and general writing so that I can write my own stuff one day and have it be coherent instead of it being a complete pile of mess. I’ve been worldbuilding my own world since I was 13 and I still have no official plot for it because creating a story seems to be a very hard thing for me to do. It’s why I’m currently trying to “master” fanfiction because it’s a chance to practice worldbuilding, plot, general writing and character work but on a prestablished foundation.
Not to put down my past writing but now since I started taking my writing more seriously it feels ten times harder and like I miss this part of writing and another part and then when I think I’ve improved a bit turns out I’m still messing up. I just don’t understand how writing and storytelling can just be so easy for a lot of writers when I have to pour my sweat and tears into learning how to write better and spend hours editing and watching writing videos. I’ve been writing on and off since I was a kid yet I still suck so it seems like I have no natural talent which I know is irrational but it feels like I have no ability at all.
My past works are messy and I wrote them fast without caring and barely editing which has led me to not even be proud of my fics or how much interaction they’ve gotten because they lowkey suck. Not to sound like a Debby downer or like all I do is put myself down but I’m just not proud of my fics and that’s because I barely edited or put any effort into them. Actually scratch that I DID put effort into them the thing is I stuck to my basic writing and I didn’t incorporate new techniques or anything like that because I wanted to do something “easy.” Meanwhile some people just casually write on their lunch breaks without thinking too hard and BAM THEY HAVE MASTERPIECES.
I’m now taking my time with my longfic instead of just writing story without editing or not checking the sentence structure and whatnot. I also am participating in concrit saturdays on this sub from now on (I want to thank the lovely commenters from this week who gave me good advice on my excerpt!) as well as editing the chapters I have already written tirelessly.
I guess it’s good that I’m improving but I still feel like it’s hard work that’s stressing me out because it feels like a huge mountain I’ll barely be able to climb. Like I am working very hard here to learn more about writing and it brings more stress than a hobby should while people easily churn out good stories and I’m just like ??? teach me your ways lol.
Anyways that’s my rant. Writing is hard and it sucks how hard I have to work to be able to write something coherent and readable.
THIS ISN’T TO SAY THAT OTHER PEOPLE EASILY CHURN OUT GOOD FICS WITHOUT EFFORT BUT TBH IT KIND OF SEEMS THAT WAY BECAUSE THE STRESS OF WRITING AND EDITING IS NEVER TALKED ABOUT IN THIS SUB.
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I don’t understand how people churn out 100k+ word fics like it’s nothing, or at least it seems that way since a lot of writers just post chapters every week or month without having to go through tons of edits or feeling stressed about constantly editing. I know that fanfiction is a hobby but for me it’s more than that. Yes it’s self indulgent and yes I want my fav characters to finally fuck but I also want to master storytelling and general writing so that I can write my own stuff one day and have it be coherent instead of it being a complete pile of mess. I’ve been worldbuilding my own world since I was 13 and I still have no official plot for it because creating a story seems to be a very hard thing for me to do. It’s why I’m currently trying to “master” fanfiction because it’s a chance to practice worldbuilding, plot, general writing and character work but on a prestablished foundation.
Not to put down my past writing but now since I started taking my writing more seriously it feels ten times harder and like I miss this part of writing and another part and then when I think I’ve improved a bit turns out I’m still messing up. I just don’t understand how writing and storytelling can just be so easy for a lot of writers when I have to pour my sweat and tears into learning how to write better and spend hours editing and watching writing videos. I’ve been writing on and off since I was a kid yet I still suck so it seems like I have no natural talent which I know is irrational but it feels like I have no ability at all.
My past works are messy and I wrote them fast without caring and barely editing which has led me to not even be proud of my fics or how much interaction they’ve gotten because they lowkey suck. Not to sound like a Debby downer or like all I do is put myself down but I’m just not proud of my fics and that’s because I barely edited or put any effort into them. Actually scratch that I DID put effort into them the thing is I stuck to my basic writing and I didn’t incorporate new techniques or anything like that because I wanted to do something “easy.” Meanwhile some people just casually write on their lunch breaks without thinking too hard and BAM THEY HAVE MASTERPIECES.
I’m now taking my time with my longfic instead of just writing story without editing or not checking the sentence structure and whatnot. I also am participating in concrit saturdays on this sub from now on (I want to thank the lovely commenters from this week who gave me good advice on my excerpt!) as well as editing the chapters I have already written tirelessly.
I guess it’s good that I’m improving but I still feel like it’s hard work that’s stressing me out because it feels like a huge mountain I’ll barely be able to climb. Like I am working very hard here to learn more about writing and it brings more stress than a hobby should while people easily churn out good stories and I’m just like ??? teach me your ways lol.
Anyways that’s my rant. Writing is hard and it sucks how hard I have to work to be able to write something coherent and readable.
THIS ISN’T TO SAY THAT OTHER PEOPLE EASILY CHURN OUT GOOD FICS WITHOUT EFFORT BUT TBH IT KIND OF SEEMS THAT WAY BECAUSE THE STRESS OF WRITING AND EDITING IS NEVER TALKED ABOUT IN THIS SUB.
2023.06.05 08:53 CaptainBorcane The dopamine rush is real!!!
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2023.06.05 08:51 ThrowRASquar I (F19) can’t stand my boyfriend (M20)
This is a much harder situation than it sounds. I’ve been dating my boyfriend for maybe a month, maybe a little bit more but I don’t like him at all. I can’t stand talking to him and being around him bothers me. I know I should just break up with him, but when I first met him he started telling me stories about how his last girlfriend absolutely destroyed him by breaking up. I don’t wanna hurt the guys feelings or break his heart, but unfortunately that’s not it. He is kinda obsessed with me, and I’m not saying that to have an ego but he likes to buy me things, expensive things. He tells me how he thinks about me 24/7 and is absolutely obsessed with me. I enjoyed the praise, gifts and money at first, but now it’s what’s stopping me from breaking it off again. Recently his parents even got me a gift so I just don’t know what to do. I feel stuck, how do I approach this? We have some mutual friends but I’m not super close with them, I’ve only known him for a month or so. I never wanted anything serious but it just got too complicated too quick. I feel like there’s nothing I can do but make him want to break up with me so I’m not the bad guy, I’m not comfortable around him as he is really childish and mean when we get into disagreements. He also obviously knows where I live. Any advice would be great! How should I approach breaking it off with him that’d be the most safe for me?
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