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Hi everyone,
Looking here to discuss competitive mixed wrestling. I’m an older woman (40 years old) who’s done this as a private hobby for a few years now. Maybe down the line we can wrestle.
Sorry, kind of new to this, so my apologies if I don’t respond right away. I’m figuring it out as I just made an account.
Looking forward to hearing from all of you. Just send me a chat.

My greatest blessing is my beautiful son, I would say 80% of me is so happy with being one and done. I never in a million years would have thought I would feel this way but circumstances always change and mentally I struggle with having a similar experience that caused a depressive episode I had when my son was 18 to about 29 months. My son is autistic but I didn’t really realize this until he was about 18 months and completely stopped talking, eating, responding to his name, etc. he had a very drastic regression that was a difficult experience for all of us. I felt like he was scared, confused, unhappy for an entire year almost. Everything seemed to change overnight! He was never unhappy and always engaging but he seemed to slip away. Today he is growing and happy and different but we really are in a wonderful place of acceptance, care, and joy. At the time of regression I was experiencing my second and very dramatic miscarriages in a matter of months that left me being monitored for nearly a half a year for tumor growth. I felt like I was dealing with so much heartbreak and fear and found therapy and anti-depressants to be very helpful in making me present in the moment. Things have been going so well recently but the fear of regression looms over me. I legitimately do not know if I would survive a regression so great again. This is why the idea of a second child is something I have put off the table. My son absolutely loves other children. I feel like I am robbing him of an experience. I enjoyed so much because of my trauma. We assume my son’s autism is genetic and comes from my husband’s side of the family. I cannot stress enough that my son’s autism has no weight in this decision. Well, some days are hard I wouldn’t change a single thing about my son. But I have to acknowledge my crippling depression during a regressive episode that several autistic individuals do go through a similar age. I read that about 40% of autistic individuals go through our aggression around the time my son did. I’m rambling. I hope I am making my point clear. My guilt for not providing a sibling is so great that my husband and I have considered some thing we never thought we would. Having a donor Conceived child. No morally I don’t know if I have issues with this. I don’t want my amazing son to think I don’t love an accept him fully, this has nothing to do with him but more my ability to experience some thing so traumatic twice would quite possibly break me. I would be completely happy just the three of us for the rest of our lives but then I feel like previously stated I would be robbing him of something that would make him so happy, he is the most amazing little boy. Is that a good enough reason to have another child? in addition of this, I’ve been trying to listen to the donor Conceived Community. A lot of these experiences can be negative. I don’t go into decisions like these quickly or without doing immense research. The more I research the more conflicted I become I feel like I will always be letting someone down or hurting someone. Please if you have experience to share, I would love to learn from you.

Since it’s summer I really want to ask some of the people I met this school year if they’d like to go out sometime, however I’m not really sure how to go about it in a way that doesn’t come off as annoying/clingy/weird. Im friends with all of them, or at least friends enough that we have each others numbers, so id like to spend more time with them to become better friends, but I’m not sure how to go about it in a way that doesn’t come off as weird.

I rigged up a tube and inserted an ear plug inside the tube to make it a bit more buoyant. But, I’m wondering if you have recommendation on a lure that’s actually pretty buoyant.

Sorry if I’m talking sh*t, but I’m aware I could be that dad/husband. If there are dads on here trying, do better, and keep up the good work. Your kid(s) need you. Your wives/girlfriends need the physical/emotional support. I know I haven’t been the best husband/dad but I’m trying. So if your partner sucks, let him know. It could be the break it or make it to how your kid develops.

I’m running a Cudy P5 that I ordered from Amazon and a AT&T prepaid SIM I got from NetBuddy and I’m only getting 4 or 5mbs down. I also have a Yagi antenna above my roofline and it’s connected to a cell signal booster so I get pretty good 5G signal in parts of my house. I did the config that NetBuddy says to do on their “Setting up a Cudy router” YouTube video. I poked around here a bit and figured it was throttling I did one speed test last night and got 7.47mbs down. My wife really needs fast internet for her work and I only have a week or two to figure this out so any advice would be greatly appreciated.

I have an AlHaitham Quicken team with Nahida, Yae Miko and Kuki. At the moment I’m using the following sets:

• AlHaitam: Gilded Dreams
• Nahida: Deepwood Memories
• Yae Miko: Gilded Dreams
• Kuki Shinobu: Deepwood Memories

However I’m not sure about the double-GD + double-DM setup and I was considering replacing one set with a Tenacy of The Millelith or maybe another set.
However TotM’b only last 3s, therefore it requires someone that hits frequently and consistently. I was thinking to Nahida or Yae, but I’m not 100% sure this would actually be an improvement.
I’m not sure about other sets, but I’m open to suggestions.
What’s your opinion?

Like many other Valorant players, i played a lot of CS before switching to Val. There it’s important to counter strafe in order to effectively stop to shoot. But it is worth doing that in Val as well ? I’m playing since episode 3 and I’m Diamond 3 so far, but can’t decide what’s the „correct“ way of peeking. Letting A/D go and shoot, or counter strafe like i used to do it back in CS. From my experience it doesn’t make a huge difference but is it still a good thing to do or just nonsense in Val ?

I’m going to the Niagara Falls comic con this week and it’s my first time going over the border. I plan on bringing 1 or 2 funko pops to get signed while I’m there. I know I would have to declare my items at the border. I also know that if you buy stuff over the border you have around a $200 limit before they charge you with fees, but do signatures count since it’s my own item I brought over? I’ve tried looking for a answer on this on the sub but I count find anything on bring stuff over the US/Canada border.

I rigged up a tube and inserted an ear plug inside the tube to make it a bit more buoyant. But, I’m wondering if you have recommendation on a lure that’s actually pretty buoyant. I want to use it for a free rig setup.

Hello, I'm driving a 2011 Altima. Got it recently needed to change battery and cable terminals, has run well since, have been hearing a clicking sound while driving, couple days ago took out and the car shut off and back on going about while moving at 10 mph with limited rpm, after stopping and turning off and back on it worked fine. Went to get gas thought maybe it was running out, car tried to turn about 4 times, let it rest abit, then it started, made it home fine, no lights dim or anything, now today I was able to unlock the car everything seemed ok until I tried to start it, tried to turn once now no power at all.
Any suggestions?
Thank you.

A lot of them have been shown off over the years that have yet to be released. I’m wondering what everyone is most excited for? I feel like Starfield will be a big hit, but Avowed sounds promising given it’s Obsidian and Fable is (hopefully) excellent given playground is a good studio, although at making racing games.
My personal most anticipated title would be Perfect Dark. I LOVE FPS games, and I’ve been looking for the franchise to return. I just really hope it’s good…
Unfortunately with Resistance and Killzone being wasted IP’s, and the newest Halo being good but flawed entry (single player) it seems that era of first party first person shooter games is just about over.
How about you?

I feel weird even typing this out… Last year I saw a psychic who immediately identified me as a starseed. I had no idea what it meant, but felt very weird after she told me information that all turned out to be true from my past and at the time future (everything she said would happen did). I have always been very lonely, felt isolated, and was suicidal for several years in college longing to return to a place I felt like was missing from me, but I’d never been to if that makes sense. I used to crave the feeling of home, even though I had lived in the same house at that point for my entire life. Anyway, life happened, I stopped thinking about it, had my first baby, went back to my job as a teacher, and moved on. I’ve always been an intense, highly sensitive empath. I am a teacher and have felt it’s my purpose to protect/ guide children to be better humans.. but I’m also the teacher that absorbs all of the kids energy until I’m drained to a point I can’t describe. I spend a lot of time alone, always have, even now that I’m married- because I feel a sense of community with people like me are missing from my life. Yesterday, a random video popped up about starseeds, which led me down the rabbit hole. I went to my yoga class and I’ve been using amethyst to activate my third eye, then I started having all of these unexplainable visions. I asked to see myself at my highest form, and it showed me- but with much paler skin, white blonde hair (I’m blonde naturally, but more of a beach blonde than white), in outerspace, surrounded by citrine looking crystals. Keep in mind I’m a sober person and this has never happened to me in a yoga class. I’m usually just trying not to fall over, but somehow I was holding all the poses for long periods of time while balancing these thoughts in my head. When I left, the sky - and everything- looked different. I went home and tried not to think about it, so I put on a stupid makeup show… then pops up another video about the Pleadians. I didn’t watch it, just thought I’d google it to see what that word meant (I teach English and had never seen it).
On google images, the exact - exact- image i visualized in my head during meditation popped up.
Has anyone else had an experience like this before? Am I crazy?

For context, I’m currently working at a special needs summer camp and though everything has been going great so far, we did have diversity training, where we talked about, among other things, how “you guys” and “ladies and gentlemen” are microaggressions/assaults, how fat people prefer “person of size”, and how people’s pronouns are fluid based on how they feel. We also learned we cannot assume someone’s gender based on their appearance or name, which made me think “then why did I put so much effort into passing?!”. I I live in a very “woke” area so this is par for the course.) Anyway, we were filling out a worksheet where we were supposed to fill out all of our identities, including whether we had a trans or “post-gender” status. I really didn’t feel comfortable revealing that so I just pretended to go to the bathroom when we were supposed to talk about our identities. My point is, this camp claims to be so accepting of trans people, yet it wants us to out ourselves? SMH

Long story short: I wrote a 15 page explanation of why I no longer believe, containing formal arguments against the Christian concept of god, and I’m looking for input on my work via email or DMs. Message me if interested.
Some of the arguments are spin offs of old ones from a father’s perspective, but I believe a few are new. If you have limited patience, a review of just the italicized formal arguments would be appreciated. I’m not even close to an expert in calculating logic.
My religious wife has asked me repeatedly to explain what happened when I lost my faith and to share my questions so that she can find answers. I’m not sure if sharing this with her and further destabilizing my marriage is the best use of my only life, but I enjoy philosophy and I think I did a good job, so I would like to hear what others think.

I’m (F) 37 and I’ve been with my husband (M) 38 for almost a decade and still yearning for all of him. I feel like I’m giving 100% and he’s only giving 30%. I’m scared as we have been together for so long. But he’s just not getting it. And with everything we have been through over the years. I’m really not sure if I want to enter a new chapter with him. I think having kids is what keeps me still with him. Which isn’t the best reason.
I have told him multiple times over the years how I feel and what I need from the relationship. But still he produces very little action. I have even provided him with resources, visual drawings, songs that explain what I’m talking about and really breaking it down. I don’t understand. As I am only asking for him to be my best friend, be someone I can trust, confide in and to really open up and give me all of him. Moreover, keep a job or something where he produces more money and to be consistent. Take care of me, love me, support me and more. As I have given him everything and meeting all of his needs and more. Always going above and beyond.
He occasionally does something special for me but most of the time he says he’s too tired, not feeling good, complaining of back issues, rude, or pissed off. It’s difficult to talk to him, so I avoid conversation at times. Because it leads to an argument.Yet he tells me he really loves me and doesn’t want to be without me.
To make matters worse. Lately, our sex life has been shaky because of medication he was taking, stressors, and him always being tired and having performance anxiety. Sex was the one thing left I was holding on to with him and truly enjoyed. Now I’m not satisfied and feel him being lazy. We were even watch the Netflix show Sex Life for awhile and then he got jealous of Cooper Connelly lol.
I don’t know what to do. He leaves me nothing to work with and he’s not interested in counseling. We have tried and it didn’t work.
Now..Since I’m feeling so neglected at home. I’m really trying to stop these thoughts and dreams about being with another man. I am very loyal and faithful. But having a really hard time. The thoughts of feeling wanted and loved are so strong. I hate feeling this way. Any advice?

Few details to know. I have 2 SC aquariums. One 45gal and one 66gal. Both filled with RO water (got the system for my house) and salt from instant ocean. Salinity for both is showing about 1.022-1.024 and I’m about a week and a half post adding salt to the RO water. For lights I have oceanrevive arctic t247( 2 on my 65gal and 1 on my 45gal). In the pictures you can see what I have in my sumps. I have thermometers holding the water at 76ish-77 in both tanks. My goal is to use the smaller for anemones and clown fish, and the bigger for corrals and sea horses. But I’m doing one tank at a time for the live stock. Since I know how particular and sensitive sea horses are I’m letting the bigger tank cycle with hopefully some dry rock for a month or two while I set up the smaller tank. Also note my lights on my bigger tank are not in the place I will have them and lights are on for pictures. I’m waiting on parts to make a stand for them. I know how to set the lights but I’m unsure on good timings and intensity. I accidentally dropped and broke the skimmer for the bigger tank so waiting on a replacement for that(that’s why it’s missing in picture) The bigger tank was given to me by a friend getting out of the hobby so that’s why there’s the algae on the walls.
could use all the tips and advice for the following things:
-testing kits or strips -dry rock recommendations (heard live rock is too risky because pests) -recommendations for good light timing and intensity for these specific lights and with the livestock I’ll have. -and water additives I could have preventatively or common fish illness medicine to have. If you’d like to recommend anything else or have any other tips please please please don’t hesitate! I’m up for any and all help! 🫣🙏🏼☺️

I’m a fun haver I just can’t play a guardian man I actually got reported by the whole lobby in a ranked game it’s my last strike to I get suspended I get permanently banned. Only low elo lobbies do this shit cuz they do thirsty for mmr on my other account I’m 3k mmr and if I were to go some shit like ymir mid no one would care

I bought crossfire two years ago and to this day I'm still not sold on it. I originally bought crossfire because of a few devastating FrSky failsafes that broke equipment, cost me money, and prevented me from flying for weeks while waiting for parts during the nicest weather of the year.
Simply put, as it stands right now, I don't trust it as a radio link. All I ever heard on youtube videos and reddit comments was how crossfire was basically "just buy crossfire and you'll never outfly your video again" which even on my analog days wasn't true in my experience. I have multiple examples of me flying analog video, where yes, I had some breakup but no where near total video loss and I failsafe and have to do the walk of shame like a fucking asshole to go get my quad. This is on 1W power btw.
At first I thought it was a fw issue, but across multiple fw versions, multipile rx, multiple quads, multple mounting strategies, etc. I still get the random fail safe that just ruins my fucking day and gets in my head. Lately I've spent more time eyeing my damn link quality in the OSD than just flying and having fun, and it just sucks the joy right out of it. Yesterday I failsafed maybe 50ft away from me, clear LOS, 1W power, practically a brand new quad build and new rx. I've had moments of greatness with crossfire, I've seen it's full potential and flown it tremendously far away, and with good obstacle penetration, but it's these flukes that have me second guessing my gear and ruins it for me.
Is it a me problem or is it a faulty module or what? I'm thinking of scrapping crossfire altogether but at this point I'm invested multiple quads into it, spare rx, etc. It would suck to have to turn my back, but I'm so damn tired of crashing because of equipment malfunctions...
Should I be locking to 150 or 50 MHz? Should I be locking power? How should my antennas be oriented on my quad? What about on the TX? What is the best fw to be flying on crossfire right now? Is there anything in betaflight I have to do for optimal performance? What about in OpenTX? WTF can I do to fix this so I can go back to having fun? I get that crashing is a part of FPV. I don't mind crashing if it means trying to hone your skills, but crashing into asphalt 50ft away from yourself while going 50 mph, delaminating your arms, ruining a camera lens, fucking up your antenna mount, props, whatever else all because my UPGRADED radio link is failing me is just the stupidest and most frustrating shit in the world.
/end rant

I just continued my studies. Years ago I took a break, found a job I like and enjoyed the work life instead of studies so I stopped completely since the whole college thing was making me miserable.
Back then I was really worked up because I felt like I was supposed to hit certain milestones at a certain age. I’m back to college and it’s actually anti-climactic. I swear I really thought it was a big deal. I guess nothing actually matters THAT much. It’s kinda freeing. Everyone’s just doing their own thing at their own pace.

I might get some hate for this one, but I’m having a rough day & looking for something to distract myself.
I’m really curious - is it possible for an AWDTSG-type group to be done well? How would that be done? If not, why?
Full disclosure, I am a woman & am in the groups. That said, I am absolutely against the AWDTSG groups as they currently stand & remain in the groups to report content. As a victim of domestic violence by someone I met on an app, I do see the value in warning others about legitimate concerns. I have a few ideas of how this could potentially work, but it’s also a slippery-slope & likely not something I’d ever want to pursue. I personally don’t think there is any possible way to have a AWDTSG type of group through Facebook.
Let’s hear your thoughts! Please be respectful as I’d like this to be a conversation where we can all learn from one another.