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2011.12.11 06:12 wallaceofspades Fortnite: Save The World

The developer supported, community run subreddit dedicated to Fortnite: Save the World from Epic Games. Build forts, co-op, kill monsters, save the day, bacon.
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2023.06.10 19:38 Last-Programmer2181 woodCraft [factions] [1.20] [pvp] {envoys} {bosses} {customenchants}

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2023.06.10 19:37 throwra5070 Girlfriend (24f) told me (26m) she'd like me to reduce how much I talk to a co-worker

I started a new job 6 months ago that is work from home most of the time, there were 4 people who started with me but only 1 was doing the same job as me. We'll call her Rebecca. Me and Rebecca both have exams through work and have them at the same time. Because of this, we message fairly regularly at work with revision tips and questions about work or exams.
It's nice having someone I get on with at work so I do enjoy talking to Rebecca. We pretty much only talk about work apart from small talk around weekend plans etc. Near the first exam Rebecca messaged me on social media asking a question and this was the first time we messaged outside of work. Since then, we now have each other on Facebook but have only messaged 2 or 3 times on social media. My partner thinks I talk to Rebecca too much and asked if I'll reduce the amount I talk to her. I told her she's a co-worker and I can't just decide to stop talking to my co-workers so now whenever my laptop makes a noise when I'm working, if my gf is home she'll comment asking if that's Rebecca.
I told her to stop since it's not fair that she thinks she can dictate how much I talk to my colleagues and she shouldn't be trying to make me feel guilty for having a friend at work. She just repeated that she thinks I should talk to Rebecca less and that I shouldn't have a problem with it. How would you handle this situation?
tl;dr I have a coworker at work who I talk to fairly regularly. My girlfriend said she wants me to reduce how much I talk to her and she got annoyed when I refused. How would you handle this?
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2023.06.10 19:37 Echo-0bject44 Compatible device for Cox Panoramic Wi-fi 6 Gateway CGM4331COM

A Cox technician came to my house last week and informed me that my modem/router combo Wi-Fi 6 unit is no longer supported because Cox switched to MoCA technology. My internet speed is 500 Mbps. The technician installed the Cox Panoramic Wifi-6 Gateway CGM4331COM made by Technicolor. The only difference between theirs and my old one is that Cox's has MoCA technology (Multimedia over Coax for home networking technology), and my old combo used WPA3 and WPA2/WPA3 mixed for security with no MoCA. Cox uses WPA2 for protection, as far as I am aware. Nevertheless, I need a DOCSIS 3.1 with 32 downstream x 8 upstream channels and compatibility with Cox. I want to avoid paying $16 per month. I have searched the internet, and I can find a combo unit, but it is not a DOCSIS 3.1 or needs the proper number of downstream and upstream channels. Does anyone know the best combo routemodem that I should buy? I have no reason ever to increase my speed past 500 Mbps.
Thank you
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2023.06.10 19:37 johnppd r/HBOMAX will go dark on June 12th in protest of Reddit's API changes that will kill 3rd party apps.

HBOMAX will be going dark in protest of upcoming Reddit changes (along with thousands of other subreddits). You will not be able to access the sub during this time.
What's going on?
A recent Reddit policy change threatens to kill many beloved third-party mobile apps, making many quality-of-life features not seen in the official mobile app permanently inaccessible to users.
In addition to providing a better user experience, these apps also help visually-disabled users to access the site through accessibility features not found in the official Reddit app. Third party apps are also used by many moderators of the site, including ones in this sub.
On May 31, 2023, Reddit announced they were raising the price to make calls to their API from being free to a level that will kill every third party app on Reddit, from Apollo to Reddit is Fun to Narwhal to BaconReader.
Even if you're not a mobile user and don't use any of those apps, this is a step toward killing other ways of customizing Reddit, such as Reddit Enhancement Suite.
This isn't only a problem on the user level: many subreddit moderators depend on tools only available outside the official app to keep their communities on-topic and spam-free.
What's the plan?
On June 12th, many subreddits will be going dark to protest this policy, including this one. Some will return after 48 hours: others will go away permanently unless the issue is adequately addressed, since many moderators aren't able to put in the work they do with the poor tools available through the official app. This isn't something any of us do lightly: we do what we do because we love Reddit, and we truly believe this change will make it impossible to keep doing what we love.
The two-day blackout isn't the goal, and it isn't the end. Should things reach the 14th with no sign of Reddit choosing to fix what they've broken, we'll use the community and buzz we've built between then and now as a tool for further action.
What can you do?
  1. Complain. Message the mods of reddit.com, who are the admins of the site: message reddit: submit a support request: comment in relevant threads on reddit, such as this one, leave a negative review on their official iOS or Android app- and sign your username in support to this post.
  2. Spread the word. Rabble-rouse on related subreddits. Meme it up, make it spicy. Bitch about it to your cat. Suggest anyone you know who moderates a subreddit join ModCoord - but please don’t pester mods you don’t know by simply spamming their modmail.
  3. Boycott and spread the word...to Reddit’s competition! Stay off Reddit entirely on June 12th through the 13th- instead, take to your favorite non-Reddit platform of choice and make some noise in support!
  4. Don't be a jerk. As upsetting this may be, threats, profanity and vandalism will be worse than useless in getting people on our side. Please make every effort to be as restrained, polite, reasonable and law-abiding as possible.
For more information on the protest, visit save3rdPartyApps/
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2023.06.10 19:37 eman8906 My (19/f) needs to move but I don’t but I (20/m) want to be there for her

I’ll try and make this as simple as possible.
My gf comes from a toxic household, her father head of the house passed away a few months back so things been difficult. Her mother now leader of house isn’t the best mother let’s say that. She had a gambling problem before but it got much worse, also her drinking increased. Her mother is planning on selling the house so my gf has to find somewhere to live. I got over there sometimes and see how it is and honestly it’s sick how her family is. My gf is the only clean one let’s just leave that their.
My gf been through a shit ton in her life and I just want to help! I told her I would move with her but then I sat myself down and ask do I need to? I still live at home with my dad rent free. Save a shit ton of money but so far I saved over 10k for my future business. So I’m proud of myself. I wanted to save over 10k so I reached my goal.
My gf don’t really have any proper guidance or men in her life besides me. Who do she call when she have car trouble ? Me. Who does she call when she need help? Me. Who does she call for advice proper guidance? Me. Who will protect her from anything and has? Me.
I just want to make it easier for her since her father isn’t here anymore especially while she’s in nursing school. I want to stay home to save more rent free but I also want to help her and keep experiencing life together. We been on over 6 vacations two being counties and 4 being cities. Helped her buy first car. Helped her with credit. We been doing everything together. I just don’t want her out on her own and not have no help/ proper guidance.
Please help me out !
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2023.06.10 19:37 possumfish13 But it has a cute laugh.

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2023.06.10 19:36 PhilPlease Summary of my June 9, 2023 trip at Disneyland

Hi all, lots of people gave me planning tips so I wanted to return the favor by summarizing my trip, in case it’s helpful. I traveled with my wife. We live in So Cal so we drove to the park the morning of. We did not buy any add ons (like Genie Plus or Lightning Lanes)
Rope drop: my wife and I went straight to Adventureland and boarded Indiana Jones (20 minute wait)
Immediately after, walked onto Jungle Cruise (no wait). Then walked into Pirates (no wait, but broke down for ten minutes). From there, got a churro (no line) and walked onto Winnie the Pooh (no wait).
Walked to galaxy’s edge. Lines were long so went to cantina (walked in without reservation, then left after a few minutes after the stormtroopers came in).
Went to Fantasyland. Rode Pinocchio (no wait), Snow White (ten minutes), the carousel (five minutes), and the storybook river cruise (five minutes). Then walked onto Small World (no wait).
This is when the park started filling up somewhat (around 11am). After, headed to Tomorrowland and rode Star Tours (25 minutes) and Buzz Lightyear (35 minutes). Got a pretzel (no wait) before hopping into Star tours line.
Crossed back to adventure land to get some dole whip with mango chimoy (can’t mobile order, so waited about fifteen minutes and soaked in the vibes). Then snacked on beignets at hungry bear (mobile ordered - no wait).
At this point, rise of the resistance had broken down. We went back to galaxy’s edge and ate lunch at the restaurant (I think it’s called landing port). Food was excellent. Atmosphere was amazing.
Then went to smugglers run (45 min wait). As we neared the end of the line I saw on the app that the wait ballooned to 180 minutes. Meanwhile ROTR was still closed.
After, went to chill in galaxy’s edge. Saw the mandalorian. Walked past ROTR. The cast members at the entrance were letting people in and told us the wait would be 40-50 min. In actuality the ride was still broken. As we waited, many park guests exited the line from the front. Several said they had waited two hours. We waited for an hour and then bailed. I checked the app throughout the day after and the ride stated down for another two hours or so.
After leaving ROTR, we veered to frontier land because we hadn’t seen it yet. We browsed the shops for a while, then went to Main Street to get coffee at Starbucks (15-20 min wait). It was definitely worth the wait because we were really tired and needed the coffee. We sipped our coffee and relaxed, pursuing the main street sites, shops, and exhibits.
After, we did the tea cups (10 or 15 minute wait). Then the parade marched past us, so we got to see the parade. We didn’t have the best view (we were near small world), but we got a pretty decent view of everything and enjoyed the parade.
After, we stopped by toon town just to take in the sites. Rodger rabbit had an hour wait, but we didn’t want to go on it. The new Micky and Minnie ride was not taking standby wait anymore (just lightning lane). But toon town was really cute (spent about ten minutes just walking around).
Next, we headed to the Mark Twain for a sunset cruise. It was a highlight of the day. Really nice ride. Very impressive ship.
Then we hopped off and walked around New Orleans Square at night. Really beautiful when sun sets. Then, we did the same for Galaxy’s edge. We bought some dinner (sausages - pretty delicious and no wait) and then took in the sites. We also checked out the gift shop. (By this time ROTR was reopen but the lightning lane was over an hour wait because the ride had essentially been broken all day)
We ended the day by walking around fantasy land, through tomorrow land, to the front of the castle. We arrived around 9pm and waited for the fireworks show. We got a great spot and enjoyed the show.
After the show, we did some last minute shopping in Main Street and downtown Disney. After waiting out the crowds for a bit we took the tram back to the parking lot and were out of the parking lot around 10:30/11pm.
—————— Biggest tips: Be at the parking lot no later than 7:30am and make sure you rope drop. We got on pretty much every ride.
Don’t expect to get on ROTR or the new Micky and Minnie ride. It’s slammed. If you really want to go, you have to prioritize it and recognize you’ll have to pay for extras (stay an extra day, buy lightning lanes, and/or buy genie plus) or you’ll have to be willing to go on fewer attractions so that you can make it in one of these two rides. You also need a little luck - the reason I didn’t rope drop ROTR is because everyone rope drops it and because it’s often broken down at the beginning of the day. So I didn’t want to roll the dice and risk losing that two hour window where few people are in the park.
The rides are fun but definitely pick and choose what you go on. If a ride doesn’t interest you very much, then don’t spend an hour waiting for it. For instance, we skipped a few rides like Autopia because we didn’t care for that ride. Same with some roller coasters (they’re cool but my wife doesn’t like roller coasters and Disney coasters aren’t worth waiting more than an hour, to me. But I’ve been going for years so I’ve been on all the coasters a million times.)
Instead, one of the best parts of the park is soaking in the good vibes, hanging with a snack, and just appreciating all the immersive decor.
Similarly, I recommend revisiting parts of the park during different times of day. The ambiance totally changes at sunset and then during the evening. The best examples are Main Street, Galaxy’s Edge, and New Orleans Square.
I think one of the best things we did was rope dropping adventure land. Most people rushed to ROTR or Space Mountain, which had pretty big wait times. If you were one of the lucky few who made it to the front of the line, it may have been worth it, but most people probably had to wait a while. By contrast, rope dropping adventure land enabled me to go on a bunch of rides in the first two hours. It took stress off the second half of the day. I also saw that many of these rides had huge lines after eleven.
Bring a backpack. Pack an extra pair of shoes, water, and sunblock.
Lastly, I recommend doing a river cruise through the Mark Twain at sunset. I also recommend getting to the fireworks show at least 30 minutes early, but no more than 45 minutes early.
A final tip - research before you go. Familiarize yourself with the park layout, get the app, watch YouTube videos, and get a game plan. You should have a sense of what you want to do and how you’re going to accomplish it.
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2023.06.10 19:36 Formal-End4016 13,000 Sweatcoins for Sale

Hi,

I have 13,000 sweatcoins which I accrued on my old phone that I'm keen to sell. Will accept low offers.
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2023.06.10 19:36 hard_way_home Am I wrong to expect my (34F) rich boyfriend (35M) to pay for more of our outings?

I (34F) met my boyfriend (35M) when he was pretending to work a creative, low-paying job for a living. Over the months, I learned that he’s actually independently wealthy, and that he and his family, and the generations that come after them, won’t need to work to live very comfortable (some might say lavish) lifestyles. Since the start of our relationship, we’ve been splitting our dinners and anything else we do 50/50. Eventually, this made me uncomfortable, and I suggested we alternate paying to make it feel more like we’re taking care of one another. He agreed, but generally I’ve been the more generous one in the relationship, making many dinners at home, reaching for the bill first, etc., all while have significantly less money than him.
Ultimately, the splitting and alternating is what I would expect of partners who earn nearly equal salaries, and it’s what I’ve happily done with past partners. In this situation though, it feels very unfair and like he’s lacking in generosity, almost to a point that feels deal-breaking. I’d guess that he has about 20x my net worth, and maybe 3-4x my annual net income just from interest on savings.
To top it off, he’ll sometimes pay to take his oldest friends on vacations, including spending $30k on a ski house for the weekend, occasionally covering their dinners, etc. I think he feels less comfortable doing this with me because he hasn’t known me for as long, and he sees that I can afford much of what we do together. (To be clear, if I were to go skiing for a weekend, the Airbnb I’d pick might cost $300 per night).
TLDR: My (34F) rich boyfriend (35M) is less generous than I am, relatively speaking. Am I wrong for thinking he should spend more on us, and that a significant other should rank above friends in terms of receiving his generosity? I’m worried he’s always going to withhold from me, and that I’ll have to watch him galavanting off with his friends while I’m left behind.
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2023.06.10 19:36 JackalChimera Nykthea, God/Devotion Tribal

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2023.06.10 19:36 eman8906 My (19/f) needs to move but I don’t but I (20/m) want to be there for her

I’ll try and make this as simple as possible.
My gf comes from a toxic household, her father head of the house passed away a few months back so things been difficult. Her mother now leader of house isn’t the best mother let’s say that. She had a gambling problem before but it got much worse, also her drinking increased. Her mother is planning on selling the house so my gf has to find somewhere to live. I got over there sometimes and see how it is and honestly it’s sick how her family is. My gf is the only clean one let’s just leave that their.
My gf been through a shit ton in her life and I just want to help! I told her I would move with her but then I sat myself down and ask do I need to? I still live at home with my dad rent free. Save a shit ton of money but so far I saved over 10k for my future business. So I’m proud of myself. I wanted to save over 10k so I reached my goal.
My gf don’t really have any proper guidance or men in her life besides me. Who do she call when she have car trouble ? Me. Who does she call when she need help? Me. Who does she call for advice proper guidance? Me. Who will protect her from anything and has? Me.
I just want to make it easier for her since her father isn’t here anymore especially while she’s in nursing school. I want to stay home to save more rent free but I also want to help her and keep experiencing life together. We been on over 6 vacations two being counties and 4 being cities. Helped her buy first car. Helped her with credit. We been doing everything together. I just don’t want her out on her own and not have no help/ proper guidance.
Please help me out !
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2023.06.10 19:36 Edbittch It’s not fair

A kid on the train has a suitcase by the same brand, as the one I used to pack with a toothbrush and three pairs of underwear to run away from my abusive home when I was just four years old. I had forgotten what my suitcase looked like, but now I remember again. Also, i used to have a snow globe collection until my mother forced me to throw it in the garbage. I loved it so dearly but I wasn’t allowed to “attach my heart to anything” (she yelled at me about that several times) so today i was at a bookstore and ofc they sold snow globes. I picked one up, shook it and immediately had to hold back tears. A childhood is supposed to be the nicest part of a persons life, which even in my case it undoubtedly was. The bar for my quality of life is really that low.
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2023.06.10 19:36 ocelotactual Duplicate SSIDs? None are connecting.

Just moved to a new house and setting up my Outdoor Nest Cams.
Going though process of connecting to my home wifi (Eero Pro6E mesh network) and getting a C223 error.
I have two of these cameras and they are both not connecting.
Also for what it's worth, I have 2 SSIDs, primary and guest. The list shows multiple instances of each. I've been trying to connect to instances at the top of the list with no success.
Restarted mesh system, phone and both cameras. Disabled mobile data on phone.
What am I missing?

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2023.06.10 19:35 JTGibber Looking to sell my souvenir tent camping pass.

I purchased a camping pass for the outeroo Mars colony area. It comes with a souvenir tent and sleeping bags and air mattresses. All set up and ready to go when you get there, and then you get to take it all home after the festival! Message me with any questions! Looking to sell ASAP!
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2023.06.10 19:35 Rude_Ad_7602 Sell my car with an active loan or sell my paid off car?

Hello, a bit of background on me. I am 26, in a commission based job and make 100,000 a year but it can vary based on what is happening in the world. Take home is roughly 55% of that after taxes,15% 401k, roth IRA, and benefits are taken out.
During the pandemic I paid off my car loan on my 2013 BRZ. The car had 12k miles when I bought it a few years back for 15k including a warranty and now has around 42k on the dash.
I ended up buying a new 22 WRX without trading my other car. (2.9% APR) Total that car is costing me 750 ish a month including insurance and I just cannot justify that in my mind especially with insurance getting more expensive every time they can make a change to it. I got it so I would have back seats for my dog and AWD rather than RWD. I do not need two cars and realize my mistakes now.

Where I am at - I can get 16k for the BRZ if I sell it, or I can make about a grand on the WRX selling it. I am thinking selling the WRX is a better decision long term because it frees me from a car loan, and my insurance would only be 80 or so a month for just the BRZ. Or would it be better to pocket the 16k, pay off any college debt and have a larger emergency fund and a newer car with a 10 year warranty?
What are your opinions?
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2023.06.10 19:35 Key-Front392 I (F18) cheated on my toxic ex (M19) with my manager and have been harassed for months

I (f18) was in a relationship for a year and a half with my ex (m19). He was very very insecure. He was a virgin when we met and I was far from it. He took it out on me constantly. He blamed me for getting physically assaulted by a man before we met because I slept with him. He ruined my 18th birthday by accusing me of cheating with my friend because her middle name is my first name. Bare in mind she was my ONLY friend. And he was critical of her for no reason. Making jokes about her weight and such. And a friend I made later who was transgender he was extremely rude about her and wouldn’t let me see her because he viewed her as a man, and I wasn’t allowed to be near men.
He made me cry constantly and wouldn’t listen or care. I have ASD and I’ve always been very naive when people hit on me. The problem was he constsntly shamed me and controlled what I could do. So I didn’t take it as a oh he cares I took it as a wow what a bad person. So I defintiely talked to people who liked me a lot and didn’t really realise and I feel bad but I wish we’d had good communication. I tried to have it so many times and talked very openly about what upset me and why but he wouldn’t do that.
Later on in our realtionship he snapped at me for no reason and screamed at me in public, cussing me out and made me cry and starting punching walls and threatening to leave me alone there (he was my lift and we weren’t near home). What caused this? Me asking to pee hahah. I left him for one day and inevitably ended up being the one to beg for him back. During the day we were apart I was trying to sext other people to get my mind off it and move on but I couldn’t, ofc I undersrnad how this puts people off getting back together. I’ve used my body for attention for years and it’s not healthy. But we got back when we shoudlnt have. I wasn’t happy.
He always bought me things and took me places. Comforted me and bought me things when I was on my period or sad. Took me on dates and paid for everything. The occasional insults and anger outbursts and controlling behaviours were not all the time. I’m not close with my parents and have 2 friends who I’m not rlly close with. So this is a lot to me and it was hard to leave because I’ve never met someone who could put up with me.
I got a new manager at work (m29) who immedaitely took interest in me. I was very disgusted at first, I have a history of sexual harassment at my workplace being the only girl and dealing with old men as customers all day as well. We eventually became sorta friends and talked a lot over text. Looking back it is was but I don’t really have many friends and it seemed genuine. I hate how naive I am.
One night we had a staff do. Both drunk, me and my manager flirted over text. I felt disgusting about it. I kept saying I can’t because of my boyfriend and I don’t like my manager at all. But it happened. I wish I’d stick up for myself more and I’m trying to work on it now I’m staying single. I told my bf within an hour and broke up with him. I was glad we were over and I had an excuse (I knew what I did would mean we’d break up and honestly I think that’s partly why I did it) He came over to my house and started throwing my stuff, snatched my phone, filmed a video of me crying to send to his friend saying “look at the wh0r3” over and over saying how I don’t deserve to be loved and even called his friend so they could degrade me together and threatening screaming at me so loud my parents were going to call the police. He went straight to my workplace right after to scream at and threaten them. Within a day he came back to my house to ask for forgiveness. I turned him away as I was still shaken.
After we broke up, I went on a date with my manager. He was talking to me every day and letting me cry about missing my ex over the phone. I thought he really cared for me more than anyone ever has to let me do that when he likes me. I’ve never had that support in my life. But looking back that might be naivety. It’s probably stupid that I’m still not sure. I still think he cares more than anyone else but he’s almsot 30 and I’m 18 and he wanted to sleep with me. But still I’m not sure. I went to his house after and I wasn’t rlly sure on sex. I’m not at all attracted to him and the age gap is weird. I Saïd no at first but he really wanted to and I was physcially aroused so I said he can just touch me but I am not comfy doing anything back.
Long story short he ended up giving me head because he really wanted to and I didn’t see the harm in refusing because well it’s just free pleasure right? I don’t know why I’ve always had that mindset because the sex I had with my ex was so passionate and intimate and I truly can’t enjoy casual sex with people I don’t care about after that. Looking back the age gap and my lack of self respect to firmly say no makes me feel sick. But I was still single and it wasn’t really overly willingly
My ex has come back to me so many times. Every time it starts off the same. He makes a new account or even showed up at my house before. He’s bought me many gifts since we broke up to get me back. Every time I let him back in, tell him how sorry I am and let him insult me to blow off steam and comfort him. And he cuddles and tells me he Loves me and gets me food. Then he has sex with me. And then within a day tells me how disgusting for getting with my manager. Bear in mind he’s been with another girl since we broke up as well. He’s fully harassed me for almost 5 months now and can never leave me alone more than a week. Well tell me he wanted to murder me then 3 days later message all of my friends to beg to see me and bring flowers. And I feel so much guilt for what happened that I keep letting him back but he’s extremely verbally abusive. I just always feel I deserve it because of what happened and let him blow of the steam.
I judt don’t know what to think. I know I’m in the wrong. And I know the guilt and disgust I feel is the result of my own actions. But being so lonely now with no friends and awkward at my job as well as being harassed reguarly is so hard. He always makes new accounts and it’s so hard to shut him down when he pretends to wsnt me to lead me on because I feel so much guilt. I know how awful he is deep down but I don’t know how to move on when I’m far from the victim in this situation. It’s hard to stop responding when I messed up. But the harassment and making me feel I deserve to die and whatnot with zero support in my life outside of my manager who I’d rather not use as support is difficult. Man relationships are complex. I’m not asking for sympathy btw I know what I did was very crappy.
TL;DR I cheated on my toxic ex to leave him and I let my older manager use my body and I’ve been harassed by my ex for months on end
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