I don't even know if this is genuine egosyntonic fear or an OCD intrusive thought at this point cus it's kinda logical. Maybe both, the latter exaggerating the former?
Basically, I was groomed during the ages of 16-17 by someone three times my age. I sent photos of myself and unironically thought I was so sexy and adultlike for grabbing someone that old's attention compared to everyone with their partners who were their own age.
Anyway, so I want to bring this up to my therapist but it's illegal to send nudes as a minor where I'm from because you'll get charged with possession/creation of child pornography, even if the photos are of you and you're the minor in the photos. I know therapists are confidential but I technically committed a crime and I'm so paranoid of bringing this up.
It's probably gonna get even worse now that I'm a legal adult.
I really want to bring it up to my therapist cus the real event OCD is eating me alive but the OCD of being arrested and charged is also equal.

I’ve just been done by a “girl” on Snapchat I sent a photo of my face then nudes separate I’m 18 (not classified as a minor) however I fear that this person will message everyone I follow on instagram. I feel better that my face wasn’t in the photo but I work with minors and I don’t want to lose my job if the photo is sent to any of the students who follow me I’m freaking out I blocked the person and deleted my instagram is there anything else I can do? Please help

SO claims the hidden album I just found on his new phone must have been from an icloud backup. Am I a moron for wanting to believe this? A woman he reached out to & deleted was nude in this album, so im just looking for plausible explanations before I pack my stuff. Any apple experts here? The date the photo was taken was before we met, But he had photos in there that I sent him that had all dates before we met too.

I am starting a private community centered around encouragement and motivation for fitness, and am curious if anyone here would like to join.
I had made a post recently seeking an individual to share progress photos with. The individual I connected with didn't pan out, however they did give me an idea for something that I think may be even better than what I had imagined- so I've started a private community where all who join HAVE to share weekly full body nude pictures (no face if you don't want). My thought is that by having a weekly group share, it helps to stay motivated and encouraged throughout the week.
This would be similar to the nakedprogress sub except that we are all making a commitment to post the once a week photo. Hold ourselves accountable to each other and encourage each other.
This is 100% about body positivity and encouragement. The reason I am here is because I have just recently allowed myself to accept the pull I've always felt towards social nudism but suppressed largely due body image insecurities. As I've started my own fitness journey, I've decided to embrace my insecurities even as I work on them. I know that nudism is about body acceptance, and I am not looking to judge or be judged. But to me, the journey towards better health and fitness and the journey towards nudism feel intertwined. I realize that many of are way more comfortable in your skin than I am as of yet, so the idea of sharing an honest unposed nude might not be a motivating experience. I aspire to that level of consciousness, but I am not there yet and I suspect there might be others here like me.
I'd hope to here from all ages (18+), genders, shapes and sizes. Beginning a fitness journey or maintaining. Really anyone who is interested in participating.
I sincerely apologize if any of this is offensive to anyone here, and if anyone has any thoughts on my community or better venue to find folks to join it than here I'm all ears.
If you're interested, chat or message me. Thanks!

In a promotional era where we got so, so many different varieties of the dance challenge for Queencard and little bits of Allergy, this recap will go through the 6th mini-album promotional activities, with content that you may have missed. Past promotional recaps can be found in the Recap Archive. Any news and updates related to this promotion for this current week will also be updated to this recap. All dates and times are in KST, unless stated.
The most recent Neverland Hangout is available here, and the Announcement Megathread for the upcoming 2023 concert tour is here.

Music Videos

Allergy Total views @ 10am: 27m; 💬
퀸카 (Queencard) Total views @ 10am: 104m; 💬 / Performance Ver

Teasers & extras

Pre-release

💬 Image Teaser
Announcement : [I feel] New Episodes (Track List); 💬
💬 Concept Poster (Queen Concept)
💬 Casting Board (Cat Concept)
Character Introduction : [I feel]; 💬
💬 Character Map (Cat Concept)
Spoiler Alert : [I feel] #YUQI ("All Night" Track Preview); 💬
Spoiler Alert : [I feel] #SHUHUA ("어린 어른 (Adult)" Track Preview); 💬
💬 'Just be a #Queen' 👑 (Queen Concept)
Spoiler Alert : [I feel] #MINNIE ("Lucid" Track Preview); 💬
Spoiler Alert : [I feel] #MIYEON ("Paradise" Track Preview); 💬
💬 'Fly like a #Butterfly' 🦋 (Butterfly Concept)
Spoiler Alert : [I feel] #SOYEON ("Allergy" Track Preview); 💬
💬 'Crawl like a #Cat' 🐱 (Cat Concept)
💬 'Allergy' MV Pre-Release Poster
💬 'Allergy' MV Teaser Photos
Comeback Interview : [I feel]; 💬
💬 '퀸카 (Queencard)' Image Teaser

Post-release

"I feel" mini-album on Spotify / Apple Music / Youtube Music
💬 Mini-album B-side Discussion
💬 Melon Magazine: 'I feel' Album Jacket Shoot
💬 CUBE Naver Post: 'I feel' Album Jacket Shoot ' BTS
💬 Moving Poster
💬 CUBE Naver Post: 'Allergy' & 'Queencard' MV Shoot BTS

Cube exclusive content

Date	Title	Extra info
230515	퀸카 (Queencard) Special Performance Video	💬
230516	퀸카 (Queencard) Fanchant Guide	💬
230517	(G)I-DLE Original Series [I feel] Production Presentation	Mini-album Press conference
230520	(G)I-DLE 6th Mini Album [I feel] UNBOXING	💬
230521	퀸카 (Queencard) Choreography Practice	💬
230522	#HASHTALK EP.23	Yuqi's plane room tour 🙌; 💬
230523	I-TALK #124	'I feel' Album Jacket Shoot BTS; 💬
230524	#HASHTALK EP.24	You wanna be the 퀸카 (Feat. Soyeon's Queencard Box Making 👑🎀);💬
230526	'퀸카 (Queencard)' Recording Behind the scenes	💬
230529	'Allergy' (Live Clip)	💬
230530	6th Mini Album [I feel] Audio Snippet Shoot Behind the scenes	💬
230603	I-TALK #125	'Queencard' MV Shoot BTS Part 1; 💬
230604	'Allergy' Special Performance Video; 💬
230605	M/V Bloopers : [I feel]; 💬

Music show performances

Date	Show	Song	Extra info
230518	M Countdown	Allergy + Queencard	Comeback stage
230519	Music Bank	Queencard	Comeback stage
230520	Music Core	Queencard	Comeback stage
230521	Inkigayo	Queencard	Comeback stage
〃	The Seasons: Choi Jung Hoon’s Night Park	TOMBOY (Live Band ver) + Queencard	Miyeon, Minnie, Yuqi cover of Jannabi's 주저하는 연인들을 위해 (for lovers who hesitate)
230523	The Show	Queencard	Comeback stage; #Queencard1stWin🏆
230524	Show Champion	Queencard	Comeback stage; #Queencard2ndWin🏆
230525	M Countdown	Queencard	#Queencard3rdWin🏆
230526	Music Bank	Queencard	#Queencard4thWin🏆
230527	Music Core	Queencard	#Queencard5thWin🏆
230528	Inkigayo	Queencard	#Queencard6thWin🏆
230601	M Countdown	Queencard	-
230602	Music Bank	Queencard	-
230603	Music Core	Queencard	#Queencard7thWin🏆
230604	Inkigayo	Queencard	#Queencard8thWin🏆

Variety / Specials

Date	Show	Extra info
230515	Melon Station Spotlight Interview	Commemorating the release of 'I feel'
〃	MisTaery	Ongoing Google Play Korea series feat Miyeon
230516	Dingo Music Killing Voice
〃	BTOB's Kiss The Radio	Live studio performance of Queencard / Queencard Challenge practice & attempt
230517	Lee Eunji's Gayo Plaza	Miyeon, Minnie & Soyeon. Queencard Challenge practice & attempt
230518	MMTG - Civilization Express	Ep.291
〃	MISUN:IMPOSSIBLE	Yuqi
〃	Yongjinho Health Center	Ep.10
〃	1theKILLPO Performance
230519	SHUHUA of (G)I-DLE Answers 21 Questions	Ongoing Mindset collab
〃	M2 Relay Dance
〃	Bam House	Ep.14 feat Minnie
230520	Music Core mini-fanmeeting
〃	LeoJ Makeup	Soyeon
230521	The Seasons: Choi Jung Hoon’s Night Park	Choi Jung Hoon’s Queencard twerking practice & attempt / Choi Jung Hoon & Miyeon's MC skit
230522	Park Myung Soo's Radio Show	Miyeon, Minnie & Yuqi. Performance of Queencard
〃	Begin Again Open Mic	Performance of Die For You (duet with Onestar) & Paradise (Minnie solo ver)
230523	LeeMujin Service	Ep.64 feat Miyeon
230524	Thumbnail Scramble
〃	Dongguk University Spring Festival	Full set fancam
230525	MMTG - Civilization Express	Ep.292
〃	Eunchae's Star Diary	Ep.9 feat Shuhua
〃	Workdol	New weekly web variety series feat Shuhua
230526	Cosmopolitan Korea Zoomterview	Monthly featured special feat Soyeon
〃	Korea University IPSELENTI Festival	Full set fancam. Stage cams: TOMBOY / Queencard
〃	Kyung Hee University Spring Festival	Full set fancam. Stage cams: LATATA / TOMBOY
〃	Hanyang University RACHIOS Festival	Full set fancam. Stage cams: LATATA / MY BAG / Allergy
230527	The Kstar Next Door	Season 3, Ep.6 feat Miyeon, Minnie & Yuqi
〃	Amazing Saturday	Ep.265 feat Miyeon, Minnie & Yuqi. Highlights / Queencard fancam
230529	Begin Again Open Mic	Performance of beside you
〃	MisTaery	Ongoing Google Play Korea series feat Miyeon
230530	1theK BE-RIC VIDEO	1theKILLPO BEHIND the scenes
230531	Cultwo Show	Miyeon, Soyeon & Yuqi Queencard dance performance
〃	Kookmin University Festival	Full set fancam. Stage cams: TOMBOY / Allergy / Queencard
230601	Workdol	New weekly web variety series feat Shuhua
230602	Singles Korea INSTA TOUR	Monthly featured special feat Yuqi
〃	M2 DOPE CLUB	Minnie & Shuhua Queencard (DOPE CAM ver)
230603	Knowing Bros	Miyeon. Highlights
230604	Ask Anything Chat	Collab feature with iHeartRadio's Most Requested Live

News / Interviews / Highlights

Date	Title
230514	📈 Pre-orders for the 6th mini-album, I feel, have broken its own record, exceeding 1.1 million copies
230516	📰 'I feel' ranked 1st across 18 regions globally on the iTunes Top Album category†
230520	📈 (G)I-DLE records over 1 million copies sold from 'I feel' on Hanteo
230521	🎉 'Queencard' M/V hits 50,000,000 views!‡
230522	📰 (G)I-DLE breaks its own opening week album sales record with 'I feel', achieving a career high & ranking 4th overall in girl group history
〃	🎉 'Queencard' M/V hits 60,000,000 views!‡
230523	🎉 'Queencard' M/V hits 70,000,000 views!
〃	📰 ELLE Korea: Princess's arrival, Jill Stuart Beauty and Miyeon's meeting
230524	📰 Weverse Magazine: SOYEON, (G)I-DLE’s leader - Five songs where the idol’s skills as a producer shine
〃	📰 Weverse Magazine: (G)I-DLE’s Playlist - (G)I-DLE Sing about Self-esteem and Love
〃	📰 Singles Magazine: The freedom of Yuqi
230526	📰 Cosmopolitan Korea: Jeon Soyeon's passionate love story with herself
230527	📰 (G)I-DLE, sells out all seats for the world tour in Seoul within 5 minutes
〃	🎉 'Queencard' M/V hits 80,000,000 views!‡
230530	📈 'Queencard' achieves a Realtime All-Kill
〃	🎉 'Queencard' M/V hits 90,000,000 views!‡
230531	📈 'I feel' debuts on the Billboard 200 at #41
〃	📰 I-DLE ‘Queencard’ insane music power…3 consecutive chart all-kill
230601	📰 Billboard: (G)I-DLE Hits No. 1 on Emerging Artists Chart for First Time
230603	🎉 'Queencard' M/V hits 100,000,000 views!

† - At time of announcement
‡ - Delayed announcement

Hi so sorry for the long post lmao but I need some advice or outside perspective on what to do and how to possibly go about ending things. There’s so many things that this person has done but I can’t mention them all as this post would genuinely be never ending.
I (18 M) and my partner (18 M/F) (shes gender fluid) have been together for a couple of months now. I remember loving and having this huge crush on him thinking he was amazing and I still do love him and think he’s great but at the same time there are things about him that I’ve come to realise either just don’t make sense or has crossed lines that I’ve stated I was uncomfortable with.
So basically I told him that because of things that have happened in my past- (SA and grooming) I’ve been uncomfortable having sex or seeing the naked body and this was a thing he knew before we even got together and has acknowledged because he got changed in a separate room to me when I went over to his house, but he’s sent me his old nudes that at the time I didn’t really think much of but they automatically saved to my phone due to the app I talk to him through and now I can’t bear to look at my photos because if I see even a glimpse of them it makes me feel sick and disgusting so I haven’t been able to delete them. We were on the phone a few days ago and she kept mentioning to me that she hadn’t taken any good nudes as of late and that she’ll miss being in the house by herself because she wouldn’t be able to walk around without a top on (she’s got a female body) and she kept talking about it and it made me uncomfortable because of the mental image- and then she send me a picture of her without a top her top on and I felt very uncomfortable but felt I couldn’t say anything so she didn’t get upset. But I genuinely can’t look at a naked body regardless of if it’s just the top or bottom half. She knew but decided to do this anyway.
Another issue I’ve had is that I can’t be over peoples houses overnight because again it makes me uncomfortable because of past issues I’ve had prior to them. She knows this. But has complained to me about it so I went over twice to appease her but she then assumed that I was going to go over every Friday night and I told her no, she tried to tell me that her younger brother wanted to see me because she would tell him I was coming over without me knowing she even wanted me over in the first place. I cannot stress the amount of times I’ve told her being around places overnight stress me out and make me incredibly uncomfortable, she says in her words “I know and I get that BUT I just want to be around you and cuddle with you and sleep with you” and she complains that she goes out with people who live with their partners and says that she can’t do that stuff with me because I don’t want to go over.
The last thing I have a main issue with is the fact she doesn’t seem to know or care how I don’t like how people seem to stare at her chest or try and flirt with her when I’m not there knowing we are together and she’s told me that it only ever becomes an issue if it makes her uncomfortable. I told her that, that shouldn’t be the only issue there and the fact that people know we are together and think it’s okay to flirt with her and want to do sexual things with her isn’t okay and is incredibly desperate and pathetic and incredibly disrespectful and she told me I was expecting too much.
There was one guy we were friends with I’m going to call them L, I did so much shit for L because I thought he was truly a victim of abuse and neglect (abuse from partner and neglect from parents) turns out none of that was true and he was actually the abuser and he stated that he wanted to eat out my partner and when my partner learned of this and when I brought it up she IMMEDIATELY defended him and said “I’d get it if he was single” and all this other bs that I don’t remember right now.
I want to break up because there are so so many other issues that I have and now every single thing frustrates me the only reason I haven’t broke up with her is because I’m afraid she’ll say that she’s going to self harm because when we first got together or something she mentions that if I hadn’t gotten with her when I did that she would be in a dark place with SH and other horrible things.
I’m so so sorry for the long post lol but I’ve had like one person to talk to about this and I think I need some outside perspective any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Hi so sorry for the long post lmao but I need some advice or outside perspective on what to do and how to possibly go about ending things. There’s so many things that this person has done but I can’t mention them all as this post would genuinely be never ending.
I (18 M) and my partner (18 M/F) (shes gender fluid) have been together for a couple of months now. I remember loving and having this huge crush on him thinking he was amazing and I still do love him and think he’s great but at the same time there are things about him that I’ve come to realise either just don’t make sense or has crossed lines that I’ve stated I was uncomfortable with.
So basically I told him that because of things that have happened in my past- (SA and grooming) I’ve been uncomfortable having sex or seeing the naked body and this was a thing he knew before we even got together and has acknowledged because he got changed in a separate room to me when I went over to his house, but he’s sent me his old nudes that at the time I didn’t really think much of but they automatically saved to my phone due to the app I talk to him through and now I can’t bear to look at my photos because if I see even a glimpse of them it makes me feel sick and disgusting so I haven’t been able to delete them. We were on the phone a few days ago and she kept mentioning to me that she hadn’t taken any good nudes as of late and that she’ll miss being in the house by herself because she wouldn’t be able to walk around without a top on (she’s got a female body) and she kept talking about it and it made me uncomfortable because of the mental image- and then she send me a picture of her without a top her top on and I felt very uncomfortable but felt I couldn’t say anything so she didn’t get upset. But I genuinely can’t look at a naked body regardless of if it’s just the top or bottom half. She knew but decided to do this anyway.
Another issue I’ve had is that I can’t be over peoples houses overnight because again it makes me uncomfortable because of past issues I’ve had prior to them. She knows this. But has complained to me about it so I went over twice to appease her but she then assumed that I was going to go over every Friday night and I told her no, she tried to tell me that her younger brother wanted to see me because she would tell him I was coming over without me knowing she even wanted me over in the first place. I cannot stress the amount of times I’ve told her being around places overnight stress me out and make me incredibly uncomfortable, she says in her words “I know and I get that BUT I just want to be around you and cuddle with you and sleep with you” and she complains that she goes out with people who live with their partners and says that she can’t do that stuff with me because I don’t want to go over.
The last thing I have a main issue with is the fact she doesn’t seem to know or care how I don’t like how people seem to stare at her chest or try and flirt with her when I’m not there knowing we are together and she’s told me that it only ever becomes an issue if it makes her uncomfortable. I told her that, that shouldn’t be the only issue there and the fact that people know we are together and think it’s okay to flirt with her and want to do sexual things with her isn’t okay and is incredibly desperate and pathetic and incredibly disrespectful and she told me I was expecting too much.
There was one guy we were friends with I’m going to call them L, I did so much shit for L because I thought he was truly a victim of abuse and neglect (abuse from partner and neglect from parents) turns out none of that was true and he was actually the abuser and he stated that he wanted to eat out my partner and when my partner learned of this and when I brought it up she IMMEDIATELY defended him and said “I’d get it if he was single” and all this other bs that I don’t remember right now.
I want to break up because there are so so many other issues that I have and now every single thing frustrates me the only reason I haven’t broke up with her is because I’m afraid she’ll say that she’s going to self harm because when we first got together or something she mentions that if I hadn’t gotten with her when I did that she would be in a dark place with SH and other horrible things.
I’m so so sorry for the long post lol but I’ve had like one person to talk to about this and I think I need some outside perspective any advice would be greatly appreciated.

So we both work in the medical field (it’s how we met) and we were both with really unhealthy people. We became best friends and talked and hung out all the time. I left my abusive ex and started to focus on myself more and he eventually left his (about a year ago). Today we were talking about nudes and he mentioned to me that he still has a sex tape with his ex on his phone as well as all the photos of them together. I told him this bothered me and he said he didn’t understand why. He has photos with his ex that are “good memories” so he doesn’t delete them. He also told me he doesn’t look at them but I’m not sure I believe him. I just feel icky. Idk it’s a lot of emotions right now. I deleted all my photos with my ex because even though it wasn’t awful all the time I’ve moved on so there’s no reason to keep them. I feel like he’s sentimental and reminiscent of their time together and that sucks. We’ve known each other for about 5 years and have been together for a few months. Other then this his only flaw is the way he does his dishes. Am I overreacting?

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years and lately our passion in the bedroom has been lacking. We both are in our early 40’s. He is very close to his 24 year old female boss. He talks openly of her and has always text her in front of me. also has a long term boyfriend. I’ve never thought much of them being close, until he was going through his pictures in his phone in front of me, and I saw an up close picture of her (looking prettier than usual - it was not a naked/sexual pic) saved in his camera roll. It could have been a screen shot he took, or a photo she sent him, or a photo he even took? I didn’t say anything to him about it, but it’s been bothering me ever since. I saw it a couple of weeks ago and I feel silly about randomly brining it up now. Or if I even should? I don’t want to come off as being the overly possessive girlfriend, but ugh, I keep thinking about it … Has anyone else ever been bothered by something similar? And if so, what did you do?
TLDR - My boyfriend 43 male recently was going through his pictures in his phone (in front of me) and I saw a pretty (non-nude) photo saved in his collection of his 24 female boss. It’s just not sitting quite right with me.

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years and lately our passion in the bedroom has been lacking. We both are in our early 40’s. He is very close to his 24 year old female boss. He talks openly of her and has always text her in front of me. also has a long term boyfriend. I’ve never thought much of them being close, until he was going through his pictures in his phone in front of me, and I saw an up close picture of her (looking prettier than usual - it was not a naked/sexual pic) saved in his camera roll. It could have been a screen shot he took, or a photo she sent him, or a photo he even took? I didn’t say anything to him about it, but it’s been bothering me ever since. I saw it a couple of weeks ago and I feel silly about randomly brining it up now. Or if I even should? I don’t want to come off as being the overly possessive girlfriend, but ugh, I keep thinking about it … Has anyone else ever been bothered by something similar? And if so, what did you do?
TLDR - My boyfriend 43 male recently was going through his pictures in his phone (in front of me) and I saw a pretty (non-nude) photo saved in his collection of his 24 female boss. It’s just not sitting quite right with me.

I just started dating this guy in the last few weeks, but we’ve been friends since high school. When we first started dating, his birthday was the next day. We’d stayed up late that night texting and FaceTiming for like six hours after we’d already been out.
During that conversation, it came up that it was his birthday and he told me that I had about ten years of birthday gifts to make up for. I came up with tons of ideas but he kept joking that nothing was enough. Finally, I told him that I wasn’t drunk enough to say what I was actually thinking. His response was “drink up and tell me”, so I did. I told him I’d send him nude photos or give him a blowjob. He loved that idea and We ended up snapchatting nudes back and forth and talked about having sex for the first time. The conversation included talking about history/testing and when it would happen. Some of my insecurities came up too, including that one of my breasts is bigger than the other and I’ve had guys make me feel bad about it. He told me how great I looked to him and told me how glad he was I trusted him enough to tell him.
Well, he ended up having to cancel the date that was going to end in sex. We’ve hung out several times since then and I’ve tried to subtly hint that I want it to happen and he just ignores it. Every other aspect of our relationship is good.
So, I’m just kind of confused. Why does he not want to revisit the topic of sex with me?

They are horrible. They’re dry, cakey looking, and they don’t look flattering. It’s one thing to wear them everyday as part of their casual look but they wear nude lipstick to every fucking event also. The Met gala, fashion week, season premieres, interviews, literally everywhere. Kim wore nude lipstick when she was channeling Marilyn fucking Monroe. Everywhere it’s nude fucking lipstick. I don’t understand how a family so unhealthily obsessed with youth seeks to wear lipstick that makes most people’s mouths look like a fossil. Even for people into brown and beige this is obnoxious. Kylie is the face of Kylie Cosmetics which largely took off because of her lips and home girl still simps for the mattes. Nude matte lipstick also does NOTHING for lips as overfilled as theirs and when Kim is constantly licking her mouth it creates a booty hole effect. Idk what hold these dusty products have on them but can they please move on with their lives. You’re INFLUENCERS. MODELS. FASHION ICONS. Give me the Fucking 🤬 nude lipsticks so I can put them back in the fucking catacombS where they belong.
Fuck nude matte lipstick.

I just started dating this guy in the last few weeks, but we’ve been friends since high school. When we first started dating, his birthday was the next day. We’d stayed up late that night texting and FaceTiming for like six hours after we’d already been out.
During that conversation, it came up that it was his birthday and he told me that I had about ten years of birthday gifts to make up for. I came up with tons of ideas but he kept joking that nothing was enough. Finally, I told him that I wasn’t drunk enough to say what I was actually thinking. His response was “drink up and tell me”, so I did. I told him I’d send him nude photos or give him a blowjob. He loved that idea and We ended up snapchatting nudes back and forth and talked about having sex for the first time. The conversation included talking about history/testing and when it would happen. Some of my insecurities came up too, including that one of my breasts is bigger than the other and I’ve had guys make me feel bad about it. He told me how great I looked to him and told me how glad he was I trusted him enough to tell him.
Well, he ended up having to cancel the date that was going to end in sex. We’ve hung out several times since then and I’ve tried to subtly hint that I want it to happen and he just ignores it. Every other aspect of our relationship is good.
So, I’m just kind of confused. Why does he not want to revisit the topic of sex with me?