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2023.03.26 14:30 SirSebastianRasputin Just finished! 500 hours of work, inspired by William Morris

Just finished! 500 hours of work, inspired by William Morris
Started in October 2022, freehanded with frixion pen as I went along. 500+ hours and finished officially today. Inspired by the designs of William Morris, and the embroidery of Jane and May Morris. Now to find a framer for a 15 inch by 19 inch embroidery piece!
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2023.03.26 14:15 dep Is there an app that will tell me for what % of the day it will be raining instead of just % chance total?

A 90% chance of rain isn't very meaningful if it's only going to rain for 30 minutes. Is there an app that can tell me basically "it's going to rain for 70% of the day today" without me needing to drill into hourly forecasts?
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2023.03.26 14:06 Dgem146 Only tried it out because it was part of my Humble Bundle subscription. Ended up buying the season pass before I finished the game.

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2023.03.26 14:06 -PepeArown- It was my birthday yesterday, so I decided to listen to all of her music to celebrate.

I know what you’re probably all thinking. That’s it?
I mean, no doubt my birthday this year was a little underwhelming. I spent most of it studying and doing laundry.
But, I made specific plans today to listen to all of Ella’s music. Recently, I’ve fallen hard for her… unfortunately. I realized I like her and her music way more than I once thought I did. Yes, I have a crush on her, but I think it’s more of a personality thing. I don’t know.
I was a little nervous, though. It’s gotten so bad to where I feel like I need to be mentally prepared to listen to her music. I was procrastinating listening to her for like an hour and a half yesterday. I went ahead and goofed off listening to songs by other artists, going on a long phone call with my mother, etc. It’s weird. I’ll gladly press play on bad or mediocre songs, but, for Ella, it’s the exact opposite. I seem to like her songs so much that listening to her can be a very nerve racking act.
The first song I pressed play on was Dominoes, and it was that way because it’s technically my least favorite song from her, and I wanted to listen in order of my least favorite to favorite. But, even having the courage to press play on Dominoes was rough for me.
But, eventually, I did it. I spent the rest of my 19th birthday… alone. Initially, I listened to her in the comforts of my dark dorm room, with all of my lights turned off. My roommate thankfully left to go see their friend until midnight.
Honestly, even that was so… therapeutic, to me. I relistened to some songs I didn’t remember liking as much like The Man With The Axe, and it just felt like a whole new experience. So, I made my bed while listening to a couple of her songs, just kind of staying there in my room while listening to a couple more of her songs, and then decided to finish up my playlist on a walk around my campus.
It was about 10:00 PM at this time. It was about 50°F that night, but it was quite windy. But, it was partly cloudy, so I saw most of the stars and the moon just fine.
Listening to Ella while walking around at night truly was an experience. Barely anyone roaming around my campus besides myself to judge or bother me. Heavy gusts of wind and leaves flying through the air to add to me totally getting lost in Ella’s music. The stars, too. My campus even has little “emergency help” poles marked off with… green lights. I need to calm down.
Yes, I even loved listening to Solar Power in this environment, as contrarian as it may seem. The quality of most of Jack’s production on the album is… debatable, but Ella’s just such a strong and beautiful vocalist on so many of the songs. I had to take a step back when Mood Ring queued up. I love that song’s intro so much. Beautiful!
There were so many unique connections with her songs that night. I almost felt like crying when Buzzcut Season came on, and I feel like that would’ve never happened in the past. And, I happened to be walking into one of the darkest parts of my campus (around our soccer field) when I was listening to Supercut. That really helped me soak in that outro. It’s surprisingly deep for just being one repeated sentence.
I’d get too wordy if I listed them all, though. Ribs and A World Alone hit extra hard, though. I guess I don’t have any strong, meaningful friendships, even if I do technically have some with my classmates now. I don’t want to call myself friendless, but I definitely feel disconnected from everyone a lot of the time. And, the fact that a lot of AWA seems to emphasize friendships being made only for advancement of self interest, and lack of accountability for friends that might betray you. Oh well. I’m nowhere near close to knowing her personally, but at least I have Ella and her music.
Funnily enough, I also got chest pains/cramps right around when Ribs came on. I guess I was just walking long enough. But, I persisted.
I don’t really want to share my insights while listening to Liability, though. I think they’re valid, but they might steer a little off course from what the lyrics are truly about. And, besides, I think it may be a bit too personal for others to understand.
I ended off the night with my three ultimate favorite songs by her. I won’t bother saying what they are if you’re all just going to call me weird or basic for my picks, so I won’t. But, my favorite song by her? Oh my goodness. It doesn’t even sound like a song made for you to cry, but I almost did when it came on.
I walked back to my dorm just about 2 minutes before midnight. I was basically thrilled inside, even if a lot of my listening session was “depressing”. I’m so much more grateful for Ella’s music than I ever have been. Some of you may not be able to understand it, but this was probably one of the best birthday presents I could give to myself, at least in my current mental form.
People have told me that Ella’s music isn’t really that “girly”, but I definitely feel like it has this special “cute” feminine quality that music made by men just can’t compare to at all. I don’t know. Maybe I’m causing too much trouble for myself by even beginning to explain it. But, that’s a huge reason why I find myself adoring it so much.
This was a long post, but, when most of my 19th birthday was basically a nothing day before this, I hope you all understand why I valued this so much. Again, I am essentially friendless beyond the point of some mostly superficial connections. But, at least I have music like Ella’s to guide me.
I woke up this morning, and my mind is overwhelmed with thoughts of her music and lyrics. It’s definitely very hard hitting, indeed. Not sure if I want to stop these thoughts, or just let myself keep thinking of them.
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2023.03.26 14:06 dreamingofalife Guys I’m buzzing…

..on Life!
Today I went to a music festival for 9 hours, surrounded by alcohol & I’m back home and 100% SOBER!
I feel really high on my achievement right now. I wish I felt like this all the time, so positive, alas I don’t. But I showed myself it is possible to have a great time and not drink.
Besides the alcohol prices were $$$, damn!
Share with me your achievements on your sober journey, I’d love to hear some positivity ☺️
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2023.03.26 14:05 Typical_Stage_4402 I’m frustrated with the way the household eats

This is really niche probably, but my whole family are stupid eaters. Not in the sense that they eat stupid things, but just stupidly spaced apart.
I’m visiting my aunt with my mum and some other cousins for the weekend.
Today - I had breakfast at 8am. Two slices of toast.
While we were out and about at 1pm, I said I was hungry and asked what they’d like for lunch, offering to cook or buy. They settled on something.
We got home at 1:45pm, and I went to start cooking but was asked to do like 6 things (think like yard work, laundry etc) before that so I ended up getting around to cooking at 3pm, we ate at 3:30pm.
Now it’s 11pm and I’m starving but no one in the house has touched the kitchen in hours except to make tea or coffee. I’ve smuggled snacks into my room but my god, I’m so glad we leave on Monday. I cannot deal with this almond a day lifestyle. I’ll probably drive myself to McDonalds if I can just work out how to sneak out of the house.
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2023.03.26 14:01 throwaway4893027484 Do. Not. Text. Them.

M20, I had dated F19 for 1½ years and we broke up December, she was a very caring and loving person. I loved her with all my heart, and would always do the best for her and make time for her. Ups and downs, we still loved each other, I really felt like she was my soulmate. All was well until November of last year, I had to have a head surgery to remove a cyst in well, my head. My mental health and anxiety around the leading up to prodcedure wasnt all the best, as there was a chance that I could end up getting permanent disabilities. I really needed her support, and asked her if she could be avalible. At one point I could tell she was upset about something, but didn't want to tell me until after the surgery. At this point she became cold, distant, and refused opportunities for me to come and see her (we were about an hour away from each other). We stopped having sex and all she was always annoyed when I tried to contact her. During all this, going back and forth from doctors and up to the surgery, she devastated me by saying she felt unhappy with us and didn't like the commitment of a relationship, and that she couldnt make time to visit me post-op. After my surgery which had left me with partial deafness and lose of taste. She prompted us to break up but only if I was to agree. She told me she simply didn't want the emotional commitment, and didn't want any kind of relationship. This all happened a week before Christmas. All this ended up with me slipping into a deep depression. What followed over the coming days was her sending me photos of other guys, and getting hurled abuse about how terrible of a person I was from her friends. I was broken. Terribly broken.
I initiated no contact. Grieving the breakup was difficult, I couldn't get her off my mind for weeks. But surely and slowly with time, I began to feel comfortable single again. I learned about attachment styles, and learned that she was very much a dismissive avoidant person, and it explained alot of her behaviour. I managed by the 3rd month to feel happier and comfortable again, slowly healing from the surgery.
However...
I found out the hardest way possible about texting someone. I had begun to miss her, and pondered if i should check up and see how she was doing. After three months of no contact, I gave in and texted them, simply checking up to see how they were going. Only to be met back with some hurtful choice words and that they were seeing someone new. That was today, I am broken once again, ill never understand how someone who loved you so deeply can be the one who hurts you the most.
For those who are about to text their ex, understand that you will put yourself for even more hurt and breaking down all that work you have put into yourself in healing. I have regretted my choice.
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2023.03.26 14:00 Efficient_Mall6043 (Repost With Extra Context) 17M - Long Story - Major Tribulations And Trials

(Other Half Of Story Is In The Comments) (VERY LONG STORY)
Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh my brother or sister reading this may Allah SWT reward you,
In the past year , I have been through extremely odd but extraordinary situations. Just for background I am 17 years of age, I always had islam in my heart, I was not practicing true Islam up until this year, but I now make sure as it is my duty and true purpose, to output a justly and positive impact in todays society.
As for the subject, Im going to give a rough overview of what has happened and an in depth description of how it had occurred ❤️🙏.
Here is a sequential list of what has happened and how it had led to tribulation.
My job (traffic control) consisted of standing in a position throughout 6-17 hours of a day. With no communication , no use of phones, and in my personal case a lot of pain from standing in a position for such amounts of time. As i started working, the following subjects had occurred to me.
(There is a lot more then this, and what really happened is ALOT more in-depth , but what I have chosen to list specifically correlates to the major tribulations in that took place)
The sequence of each situation will endup correlating to the major tribulations.
1st Situation -
During the beginning of my time at this work, I was smoking THC vapes (weed vape) all day, as this addiction carried on through the previous times. Although I was still sinning a lot of the time, it occurred to me that Allah SWT understands the context behind everyone’s situation and not just the exterior. This is no reason to sin. But this is what caused me to submit. I would dwell on my situation and how I really am at the heart, I would dwell about my true morals and ethics which led me to shed tears regardless if I was at work because I realised this whole time Allah is the only one who knows how giving and caring I am in the soul, I would cry for his help, I would cry for his forgiveness, I would cry in appraisal of his almighty power, I would cry when I realised he saved me the whole time. It got to a point where I knew only Allah SWT knows how much I loved him , for the beauty of nature, for every time he saved me, for every time he tested me , for every life occurrence which took place, For the wisdom and knowledge he provided me with, For giving me a chance to build the heart of a warrior, For the outlook on life I was given. Subhanallah
2nd Situation -
With all the time at work came a lot of dwelling on my past. A major factor included all past relations. Who was good, Who was with me that had alterier motives, Who was blatantly unjust, who would sin with me , Etc.
Subhanallah it’s as though Allah SWT blessed me with true insight to the intentions behind every relation I had.
Who was close with me for money? Who was close with me for attention? Who was close with me that would lie upon the name of Allah? Who would talk to me about private situations of other people? Who was close with me to share a bad habit? Who out of those people would do what you would do for them? (biggest one) Who out of those people loved you like your brothers, your mother, your father , your sister? No one was left.
I had concluded my only true companions consisted of first-blood relatives. These are the only people who through any situation end-up coming close regardless of the past. These are the only people who would never steal. Who would never lie in the name of Allah SWT. Who would be too shameful to influence a bad habit on each other.
Regardless of any past action or motive from previous relations, I am equally respectful to every one of them to this day. I hold zero grudges and who am I not to forgive and be welcoming to anyone who has crossed my path. If it wasn’t for these people I would not be blessed with the outlook on the unbiased truth of intention behind relations.
Continued in comments..
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2023.03.26 13:56 dlivetvtr TikTok CEO Shou Zi Chew's Congress showdown: Five takeaways

TikTok CEO Shou Zi Chew's Congress showdown: Five takeaways



By James Clayton
BBC North America technology reporter
Bruising, damaging, relentless. TikTok CEO Shou Zi Chew faced four-and-a-half hours of questioning at a US congressional hearing on Thursday.

As one congressman pointed out, some people run marathons quicker than that.

Mr Chew will certainly be feeling it, after a torrid time giving evidence. Many tech execs have stood before Congress, and they often don't get an easy ride.

But what was exceptional about this hearing was the stubborn, never-ending line of vicious questioning.

Who is TikTok chief Shou Zi Chew?
How a TikTok ban would - or wouldn't - work in practice
TikTok ban: What could it mean for creators?
From both Democrats and Republicans, there was no let-up. A spokesperson for TikTok said afterwards the politicians were "grandstanding". There is most certainly some truth to that. But between the sometimes frustratingly verbose questioning, we did learn a thing or two.

Legislators were united against TikTok
There was criticism of TikTok from Republicans and Democrats, and the level of distrust and scepticism from all sides was stark.
"Welcome to the most bipartisan committee in Congress," said Republican congressman Buddy Carter.

Media caption,
Committee chair to TikTok CEO: 'We aren't buying it'

"Thank you, Mr Chew, for bringing Republicans and Democrats together," said Dan Crenshaw, a Republican.

It was really quite something to see so many politicians - who agree on practically nothing - agreeing wholeheartedly that TikTok was a security threat.

TikTok complained afterwards that not enough time had been spent focusing on the platform's measures to keep data safe.

"Also not mentioned today by members of the committee: the livelihoods of the five million businesses on TikTok or the [US Constitution] First Amendment implications of banning a platform loved by 150 million Americans," a TikTok spokesperson said.

ByteDance engineers in China have access to some US data
Mr Chew kept talking about a "Project Texas", a proposal which will see it store all data in the US under the watch of American firm Oracle.
However, Project Texas is not fully operational. As of now, Mr Chew confirmed that engineers at ByteDance - TikTok's parent company - do have access to data.

"We rely on global interoperability, Chinese engineers have access to data," he said.

It was an admission that politicians kept coming back to. Their point was that if data can be accessed by engineers in China, it's hard to see how the Chinese government couldn't also access it.

On Friday, China's foreign ministry repeated its claim that it does not ask companies to provide data or intelligence located in other countries.

Chew has shares in ByteDance
Perhaps Mr Chew's least successful defence was his attempt to distance TikTok from ByteDance.
By any definition, the Chinese company owns TikTok. Mr Chew himself used to be ByteDance's chief financial officer.

When initially asked, Mr Chew didn't want to say whether he owned shares in ByteDance. Pressed by lawmakers, he eventually said he did, but tried to downplay the connection.

China's government says it would oppose any US plan to force ByteDance to sell TikTok - something authorities are reportedly considering.

Chew's children do not use TikTok
At one point in the hearing, Mr Chew was asked by congresswoman Nanette Barragán, a Democrat, whether or not his own children used TikTok.
He said they didn't because they live in Singapore. In that country the version of the app for children younger than 13 is not available.

Media caption,
TikTok CEO tells Congress: '150 million Americans love our app'

Mr Chew did clarify that the children's version of the app is available in the US, and he would let his children use it if they were in America.

What about Cambridge Analytica?
Mr Chew generally pulled his punches. He didn't often take the fight back to members of Congress. But there were rare moments where he did push back - and effectively.
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When quizzed on TikTok's use of user data, he said: "With all due respect, American companies don't have a great track record with data … Just look at Facebook and Cambridge Analytica."

It was a barbed comment, but a reasonable point to make.

Harvesting of Facebook users' personal information by Cambridge Analytica, a British political consultancy, and other third-party apps caused uproar when it emerged in 2018.
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2023.03.26 13:53 HaileyQuinnzel “Text Me”

So I (23F) had a date last night with a guy (23M). The whole night, he got my car door for me, offered to buy me a soda, and we made out & cuddled & talked for 7 hours. The whole time, he’d talk about us possibly being together & doing fun plans, like him saying we could go to the beach next month or something & even said we could hang out later today if I’m free. He also kissed me twice as I left. However, at the end of the date, he said “text me.”
I’ve heard that a guy telling you to text him is a bad sign. What do y’all think?
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2023.03.26 13:51 Ive_got_big_dreams Day 5 CT from 14 year habit ranging from 70gpd, but quit from 30gpd dropped over the last 6 months…

I had broken sleep last night from 8:30-3am, after figuring out that for some reason, the rebound RLS from gabapentin is BRUTAL. I didn’t take any last night and took the Hyman’s Restless legs and I finally got some sleep.
Cutting back on the Gabapentin, now my heart is pounding, I’ve already taken 3 showers today and I am so incredibly weak.
I went to Costco yesterday and as long as I was moving, which was all day long yesterday I was okay. I felt like I was on crack. So tired but unable to sit down without crawling out of my skin. I sobbed by 7pm, utterly exhausted. It felt like I was drinking espresso all day long.
I have Suboxone, liquid Vicodin, Lucemyra and Gabapentin. I was already taking Gabapentin before I quit, albeit small doses. I’m ready to take them all. I don’t know how much longer I can go. I have a business to launch and I can’t even fathom sitting down at the computer. My website is almost done and the designers need feedback, but my brain is so messed up I can’t bring myself to do it.
I want to try the Liposomal vitamin C, but ACID REFLUX from stupid kratom. I bought magnesium and took 200mg yesterday during the day, but I guess I’m doing that wrong. I know Gabapentin messes with Magnesium, but I won’t be taking any Gabapentin tonight, that’s for sure.
I’ve never made it this long, but I also know I have a breaking point. I will post every hour if I have to. You guys have been so wonderful. Any suggestions?
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2023.03.26 13:44 dulcetdreamer I'm feeling hopeless lately.

Hey everyone, 24F, diagnosed with RRMS in 2021.
I guess I need to vent, if that's okay. I work at a domestic violence hotline and it's becoming very stressful to me. The reason being is that I make 3 sick hours per pay cycle, which sucks because I'm on Ocrevus so I'm immunocompromised. This means that I need to not be sick/feel unwell for a total of 6 weeks to rack up 9 sick hours, which only covers a day. The silver lining is that the job is remote, which works, but I'm feeling overwhelmed, I feel sick today and have been up for an hour deciding whether I should call out. I'm also afraid me calling out sick today will result in the supervisors declining my requested day off for Sunday, April 2nd.
Honestly, it feels like I'm trapped. While I like helping others, the job can be very stressful. I don't know what to do. I've looked up other jobs and I don't think I'm gonna get a better one but I need the income. I can't be on my feet all day and traveling is a challenge for me. I feel so trapped and like I'll never find my ideal work situation. Or maybe this job is as good as it's going to get. But I'm so frustrated that I have to rely on my body to not be sick or feel bad for 6+ weeks at a time. Today, I have 15 hours but since I called out today due to not feeling well, I'll have 8 hours. The job is already remote, I feel like it's the ideal accommodation for people and I'm not entitled to want anything more. And yet I do. I'm just feeling so lost and helpless. That's all. Thank you for listening or providing any words, much appreciated. 🙏🏼
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2023.03.26 13:43 Unlucky-Set-6781 That awful feeling when other people are scared of you

This is really hard to explain, but I’m gonna try my best. I got into a scuffle with my boyfriend twice today, both over trust related reasons. I confronted him twice today about these things that are honestly stupid and not that bad, but for some reason it made me freak out and start crying. I haven’t spoken to him about it for the past few hours, I just ignored his last text.
For some reason, I view my relationships almost like a tally system. Kind of like a “three strikes you’re out” thing. Over the past couple of months, we have gotten into arguments. Not as bad as my past relationships, but one from early March was especially bad. In my mind, that thing counted. He seemed genuinely upset, and I felt it basically radiating off of him. I don’t know why I view the tally thing as valid, but with all my experience in relationships, there’s only a few things that you know count towards it’s end. Sometimes they’re so bad you know it’s a rocket right towards the pillars holding up your relationship. Most of my relationships have ended in relation to argument reasons.
I sometimes feel like a leech that tears away everything my partner is. The problem is that I don’t know how to stop it. I’ve been in therapy 7 years, at this point I feel like this is just who I am. I remember my boyfriend hesitating his words, compliments, conversation, etc. I asked him why and he basically replied that it’s because he’s scared how I’m going to react to it. I have a habit of blowing things out of proportion. He can’t even compliment me because he claims I wouldn’t believe him anyways. It hurts so much. I don’t want him to fear me or my reactions. I don’t want this as another tally on the chart towards a breakup. He’s a great person, I just feel like a fucking villain. He doesn’t deserve to be with someone who makes him feel so hopeless and trapped.
When I feel them grow distant from me, whether that’s physically or emotionally, it feels like I’ve already done too much. Like I’ve shown too much of my bad side and there’s no going back from it. I can’t redeem myself. This is where I feel like walking out and giving up. Like no matter what I do, they won’t ever view me the same as before. I hate that I keep doing this. Every time I try to seem emotionally stable or mature in a relationship, it never holds up. I’m so scared to be alone. I feel like at this point I won’t have a choice.
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2023.03.26 13:43 papamojya Finally did it! All trophies, all perks, all locations, all (do-able) quests. Completion play-through- complete! And as I prepared this post, looking through the trophies, I realized that I started just over a year ago. Well, time to mod...

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2023.03.26 13:41 KOMKO190 A possible problem with Xiaomi Mi10T 5G battery life

I am currently running MIUI 12.5.12 on my Xiaomi Mi10T 5G.
I am not sure whether to update or not since the battery doesn't seem to last as long as it needs to. It feels like I can't get enough usage for 1/4 of the day. For example - today it says I've been on my phone for 4 hours and 3 minutes (it counts the time past midnight, so you can put it for example at 3 hours tops).
Now, it was already 35% and was on the charger, and what I did was:
Tiktok - 1h 1min
Instagram - 54 mins
Reddit - 50 minutes
Snapchat - 29 minutes
WhatsApp - 16 minutes
YouTube - 12 minutes
Other - 22 minutes
The usage since I woke up today was AT TOPS 3 hours and yet my phone went from 100% to 35%? Is the batterly life on this phone really that bad or? I literally always have a powerbank with myself because it doesn't last the whole time I'm in school, outside, etc...
P.S: Here's the battery life and whatnot: https://imgur.com/a/FshjFXT
EDIT: I will charge my phone to 100% and see how much it takes to go to 10% or whatever - what app to use for this? What do you suggest? Also, a quick note: I stopped using 144Hz and switched to 60Hz to save battery, so this is all on only 60Hz...
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2023.03.26 13:37 DangerousThanks Concerned about new schedule

I recently accepted a new job but instead of working five hour days I work 4/10’s. I’ll get more time with my family and occasionally a day to myself, which I don’t currently get. I’m concerned about how my baby will adjust to my new schedule, he’s is currently in daycare 3 days a week from 6:30 to 4:30, he sleeps the whole way home, and we get home about 5 and he falls asleep around 8. With my new schedule I won’t be able to pick him up till 5:30 and won’t get home till 6. He just turned 9 months today and is wanting to stay awake longer and longer. I’m really worried that this is going to throw him off and he won’t sleep or at least not till much later than usual.
I’m very aware that I might be projecting and making a mountain out of molehill. I’m really nervous about this new job because it’s a big step up in a new career. Growing up my schedule was frequently changed so I really had a structured environment.
Am I making a mountain out of molehill or should I legitimately be concerned about this?
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2023.03.26 13:37 schisming Weirdly Using Scheduling to Do Things

Ohligatory this might not work for you, it doesn't even work for me every day, but sometimes it does and it's wonderful.
I got my diagnosis last year and I've had many many years to come up with some odd coping strategies. Ik I rally against the whole "just make a list!" rhetoric a lot irl, but just hear me out.
Make a schedule for the day. Each hour, set 1 or 2 smallish tasks i.e. hang up laundry, shower, load dishwasher, one assignment edit, etc. Do that for the whole day, e.g.
10:00 Brush teeth, load dishwasher 11:00 Hoover 12:00 Lunch, one assignment edit
For some reason, sometimes my brain views this not as Work, but as Competition, and thus thinks "Oh we have to BEAT THIS SCHEDULE! We have got to be AHEAD how dare this schedule exist and think it can win!" As a result, I'm currently two hours ahead on the tasks I've set for myself today and I'm pretty happy about it. Adjust the schedule best for you. Need it to be every two hours? Sure, change it up.
As said, I don't know if this will work for everyone, sometimes I struggle even using this method. But I thought I'd throw it out there.
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2023.03.26 13:34 DrBroManDudeGuy AITA for knocking to request quiet on the shared wall and then calling the cops because they beat on my door shouting threats at 3AM?

I say this as someone who a few hours ago was googling “how to handle squeaky headboard from neighbors having sex”
DO NOT KNOCK, however politely, on the wall. I’ve learned that if nothing else from this. I just did and it got escalated by my aggressive neighbor so far that my wife and I are in complete shock and scared to live here now.
3AM and squeaking headboard against the wall starts. It’s obviously sx so we are patient. But it goes on for 10 minutes of headboard-pounding-the-shared-wall-sx So we knock once, lightly. 10ish minutes later, my wife knocked a little louder, three gentle taps.
The person next door then knocks back, and in the same situation I can see myself potentially doing the same. But THEN she starts beating on our front door, loudly. Then screaming threats. After banging 3 more separate times then she TRYS the door handle violently. Then she goes to our shared balcony area, which has sliding glass doors, and is screaming more threats. At this point I called the police, genuinely afraid. We have pots and chairs on the second story shared balcony, which could easily be used to break the glass. While I am on the phone with them, she kicks the front door, yelling more threats and beating on the door more. Specifically saying “I’ll f you up” and “you’re f-ing done for”
Needless to say, it was a he said she said mess. Cops did their jobs well, and I unfortunately did not record anything due to us hiding in the bedroom, fully expecting firearm discharge to be a potential outcome (while that was not one of the specific threats). The cops suggested next time instead of knocking on the wall to call the apartment courtesy officer to make a noise complaint, which I feel like is an unnecessary, kind of poor ‘neighborly’ minded escalation, and a knock on the wall should be ok for a stable neighbor.
She then asked to speak to us when the cops were there, and I said “I’m not comfortable with that right now” and she yells, in front of the cops “yeah that’s what I though, don’t be so sneaky sneaky”.
We are looking for apartments to rent now, we were planning to turn in our lease renewal TODAY and I forgot fortunately. Neither of us feel safe and we both fell blown away.
TLDR AITA for knocking on the wall to stop loud 3AM sex noises from neighbors and then calling the cops when they tried to kick in my door.
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2023.03.26 13:30 Alarmed_Koala_1558 Something's going horribly wrong with the blueprint system and I don't know what's causing it

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2023.03.26 13:29 Weekly-Set-610 I can’t eat for some reason.

My situation is so specific I can’t give a huge amount of context, but I don’t know where else to turn than to the internet?
I have a huge issue with anxiety. To the point of panic attacks. Recently I have made a huge life change because I’ve been making awful, horrible, self destructive decisions.
Im very depressed and I know that but I have zero healthcare, and so therapy is not an option. Despite being below the poverty line and having a child (6) I do not get any benefits from work, the government, or any other place. I dont even quality for sliding scale programs but all I can say is I make less than $20 more than the limit for any assistance..
Now for the past 7 years my(f27) partner (m27) have really had a rift. He wanted a kid, I wanted to be child free. Despite protection AND the pill, I got pregnant. I freaked out because I would lose my job that I LOVED. It was the happiest time of my life. The guy I liked for so so so long (almost a year) and I had been together for 11 months. I knew it was a bad idea. My job was the one that made the majority of our finances and I didn’t want to be pregnant or have a child.
Well “love” (read: emotional manipulation) won and I kept the pregnancy. Yeah I’m stupid I know. Our relationship was actually good, we had fun together and the issues we ran into we worked together and fixed them or at least started the process because of my crippling anxiety and his inclination towards anger it was a process but we were a team.
That ended when he used the ultimatum to either keep him and the baby or my job (and life I mean I brought a human into a world like this and I’m doing everything I can to not feel guilt for knowing they will face hardships because my partner would leave me if I didn’t) it was entirely a stupid mistake. He is a good dad but a horrible provider. I’m now depressed and ofc hormones ppd, ppa, I developed diabetes and other chronic health conditions and became, well I wanted to get away from the world but I have a small human that needs me. Stopped wearing my seatbelt or looking before crossing the street.
Partner turned to drugs and we split. He gets clean, we work through it. My health (mental and physical) stresses him out and then he eventually relapses. Couldn’t hold a job, so I worked 2 jobs 4 weeks after having a child. This may give away something personal but after I gave birth, he disappeared after holding our child for nearly 4 hours. Then comes into the room, has not spoken to me at all looks down at arc child, and says, “are you sure the child is mine? “. I should’ve left. But my health and financial situation made it hard. I would end up having to go back because I can’t raise a child and work two jobs. I had one friend and my mom who also has health issues that would watch my little one but has nerve issues. My dad was too far to help. Childcare is expensive Well now the past few months since the last relapse and I live with my mom and we are “trying” but he’s cost me over $5000 and he works but he’s making so little and having to pay for legal costs for possession and a few other things and might go to prison for a few months/years because he enjoys his job despite the pay.
This will be odd but he wanted to apologize and celebrate my birthday. I figured it couldn’t hurt. He couldn’t pay for any of the gifts or food. There’s another $200 but he ordered me two gifts that were collectively $70-90 with shipping maybe..
Since then I can’t eat or sleep unless I’m drunk or take way. More than the recommended dose of sleeping medication. I haven’t cried a lot but today my aunt passed away and I went from crying for hours to deciding I want to leave him and move and get my old job back. I got so happy I danced around work listening to music and finally talking to my friends again.
Idk why I got so excited but I did. Unfortunately something held me up tonight so I went to get food and gas because even though I can’t eat, I keep making meals or buying food and I just stare at it until I just give up trying to eat. While I was there, I met someone here I am just getting out of a horrible relationship. But I allowed him to get my number. Technically, my partner and I are separated but today I did decide to leave them. I just haven’t been able to tell them we haven’t lived together in months. And this other guy and I start texting turns out we have a lot in common. I don’t want another relationship but I’m also moving in a few months. The advice I need to ask about is do I wait and not tell that I am leaving my partner, which would make it easier on me and probably safer or do I end it and maybe pursue seven things like a friendship with flirtation with someone that actually seems to care about the things that I like because he likes them too.? I don’t think it’ll be a forever we’re gonna get married thing just I want to be happy. I wanna have fun and not want to stop existing. I want to get excited when my phone rings instead of dreading what has happened now. I know pretending is wrong, but it would make it easier on my mental health even though I would feel like I’m cheating even though I don’t plan on doing anything like that, just casual flirtation, and possibly being like Internet friends or we don’t see each other, but we talk and play games and watch videos, but virtually using voice chat. I was also able to eat, but only a small amount of fries. I think this decision to leave is a good one. It’s the right one, but do I leave secretly it’s not like I’m gonna hide from him. It’s just that someone else is also on a similar situation. We don’t know each other very well but I know she needs to get out to her more than me, if I go and get everything ready and then come back and get her and our kids we could have a very happy life. I am almost 100% certain that this is the right choice. I just don’t know whether I should be open to my partner or ex partner or if I should tell him and risk it, possibly getting out because my child’s father is very close friends with her partner. I started trying to reach out more with her because I found out how dangerous her situation is. It is benefiting me may be more I don’t know I’m not sure what to do. Tell or wait ?
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